Posted By: Arden_Moon
I'm interested to see how similar peoples first times' are.
Did things go great? Did you do a newbie move you wanted to slap yourself for later?
Do you remember your first time?

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OXOXOX,
Arden Moon
I'll start, Arden, but I'm sure the men around here would MUCH rather hear about your first time than mine. So it's your turn next.

For me, it was...anticlimactic. It felt great, and strangely familiar (like I was recalling the sensation from a past life or something), but I remember thinking, "Is this what all the fuss is about?". I had been blown before, and to me the intercourse didn't quite measure up to getting head. So it was not a particularly special experience. (Of course I've grown to love it more and more!)
And since I'm telling the story, I'll admit that while I was somewhat underwhelmed by the experience, she was devastated by it. Right after I came, which didn't take long, she burst into tears. It took me ten minutes of listening to her sob before I could understand what she was saying. She was crying because she had dreamed about being with me since 6th grade, imagining what it would be like, and when it finally happened, it was devoid of emotion on my part.
I felt terrible. She was in love with me, I was not in love with her, and that reality hit her suddenly like a ton of bricks that night, during our first time.
But I only felt terrible to an extent. Afterall, I wasn't in love with her, so my feelings could only go so far. I didn't really care that I was "mechanical", "going through the motions", as she tearfully lamented. It was my first time, so naturally I was concentrating on what to do, instead of gazing into her eyes. Mostly, I was just glad to have had the experience, to be able to check off "sexual intercourse" on my list, to no longer be a virgin.
Matt