many many providers say they require something, but really don't. I know many who post adds and websites saying they require a board handle and provider reference(s). You can send them to her but they actually never check them!  Test it out.  Send them an email giving them some other guy's handle and a couple of references. Most will say you checked out!

I remember one gal I sent an email too like that, 2 minutes later she said I checked out.  hahahahahahah