For those of you thinking of seeing Sasha Bleu a.k.a Digital Playground starlet Selena Rose, be advised that she is a FRAUD and major HEAD CASE !  I am writing to share my horrible experience booking her independently and hope you heed my warning.  Sorry for the long post.

I saw Sasha/Selena's ad on this board in November on the link attached.  I was intrigued by her pics and profile so I emailed her asking if she toured.  She emails me back saying she did not, but would fly to see me for 2.5K /night.  I email back saying I would be interested in flying her to NY.  She asks for my cell, and we speak the next night.  First impression from the call was good - she was bubbly and sounded nice.  She had never been to NY and said while she had escorted locally in Miami, never had flown anywhere on a date.  We talked a bit to be comfortable with each other, and I said I would email her a travel plan.  

The next day, I email her an itinerary with the proposed dates and flight schedule as well as asking her what verification info she wanted.  I would book her for the whole weekend but proposed a total rate below the 2.5K/night she wanted.  I figured we could negotiate that, and if it did not work out so be it.  The next few days, she sends me loads of text  messages including sexting and naked pics saying how excited she is to visit me.  I assume she is good with my proposal as she texts me to buy the plane ticket which I do and email her the e-ticket/itin.  A few days later, she tells me she misread my email, and the rate I gave her was below the 5K she expected.  I explained I was paying for her hotel/flight already and what I quoted was what I was prepared to pay.  If she was firm, I indicated we could cancel.  She tells me that she needs a vacation and wants to see me, so she agrees to my offer, and says she will be glad to see me.  More sexting follows as well as texts on how excited she is for the trip and how she was making herself pretty for me, etc.  I am looking forward to her visit so I book a 5 star hotel, SPA visit and a BWAY show (which she said she wanted to see).

Two days before her flight, I ask her if everything was OK and if she needed a wire deposit from me or any information from me.  She says no.  Looking back that was a sign that things were going TOO smoothly.  The night before her flight, I text to let her know I would send a car for her for an airport pickup.  Once again, she tells me she is packed and excited for the trip, and my concern that she will flake lessens.

The morning of her flight, I text to wish her a safe trip.  No reply.  An hour before her flight, I text again to ask to see if she made it to airport ok.  No reply.  I call and text again for her to let me know she made it on the plane ok.  No reply.  I try once more as he plane is scheduled to take off.  She finally texts me back to say she overslept and missed the flight (a lie because she tweeted on her twitter very early that morning).  She also tells me she won't be coming to NY as she is not an escort and meet someone she doesn't know.  And she's telling me this NOW ?!! I ask her why she did not tell me earlier so I had a chance to cancel the air/hotel/spa etc.  She tells me to just take another girl and not to start
drama.  I tell her she should at least pay me back for airfare to which she agrees, but this is where
she gets weird.  She starts telling me that she is not a prostitute (even though she is listed with 3
agencies in Florida, has postings on this board AND admitted to me she met local clients).  She also
starts ranting about how she has a job and a career and is a major star, and doesn't need to escort.
All the while, I'm thinking, she could have told me this BEFORE the day she was to travel.  I tell her to
just be decent and pay me back for the airfare - she says she is decent and that's why she does not
escort (a lie).  She says she will pay me back for airfare when she has the money and rants again
that she is a star and should not have to pay a guy back ?  I tell her to keep just keep her promise.

Long story short, it's been over a month, and she has ignored all texts, emails and calls.  She has apparently disconnected her number as well.  As for being broke and not being able to pay back, her twitter pages shows her going shopping, going out, etc.  I assume she's not too broke to do all those things.  

Anyways, I admit I was overzealous with some things - I lost money on the air, hotel, spa and Broadway tickets.  I realize Porn stars are not known for their integrity, but I gave her the chance to make right on just the airfare portion, and I would forget the rest and move on.  That was not the case.

Selena Rose / Sasha is delusional, a flake and a fraud.  She should be avoided at all costs.







-- Modified on 12/24/2011 7:55:08 AM

Sorry you had a really bad experience.  I can sympathize.  While I've never had a situation that bad, I've come close.  Read my post in the thread on "regrets" and you'll see.

Anyway, you just explained in great detail why I never fly someone out to see me that I've never seen before.  Even through an agency, you run the risk of a girl flaking on you but at least with an agency, there's the hope that they can send someone else even on short notice.  You might still lose on the airfare because of the ridiculous security rules but at least the B'way tickets and spa wouldn't go to waste.

Thanks MrFrench - sorry for your experience too.  It's a lesson learned.

BTW, Selena emailed me back after I said I would post that she is a fraud and maybe file suit to get her attention.  My actual point was that she had promised me via txt that she would pay me back for the air ticket and I asked her to get back to me to make good on her promise.

Once again, her delusions kick in.  She iterates that she is not a whore and that various websites are posting without her permission and the guy from one of the agencies is impersonating her.  Once again more LIES as I spoke to her at least 6 times on the phone about coming to NY, and I recognize her accent from her movies.  If a guy can actually pull off sounding like a young woman, I am impressed.  She tells me I am harassing her yet I sent her a few polite emails asking for status of what SHE said she would pay back (I still have her text messages).  

Anyways, Selena Rose is one delusional, messed up lady.  If you see her at AVN or otherwise, just know the craziness that lurks within.  You almost have to feel sorry for her.

She was probably testing you for her own protection.

You don't exactly want it in a sworn legal filing (that's a public record) that you were trying to have an escort session with a porn star, now, do you?

I'd leave it at where you are now, walk away, having done your part to tell the story, and take Mr. French's advice in the future- the first date is NOT the one to start laying out for plane tickets and advance commitments without any track record of follow through.

-- Modified on 12/23/2011 4:35:59 PM

I  would not stand for that behavior...  I would bad mouth her to everyone and everywhere I could.

Can't allow her to get away with it...  Post everywhere about her, all the time...

I saw her rate and thought something fishy was up.  Thank goodness I didn't take the plunge.  Sorry you did.  Hope it doesn't ruin your holidays.  Good luck next time.

I have had similar experiences, but not as bad as yours, with a couple of porn stars.  The worst one being a case where I made arrangements to go to LA to see a particular lady (I am stretching by using the word lady here), booked a 5-star hotel, dinner arrangements, etc.  I was in constant contact with her during the week leading up to the date in LA.  AFTER I arrive in LA and settle into the hotel, I get the silent treatment.  After multiple emails and calls, she finally sends me a text stating that she can not see me as she does not feel comfortable.  This is after I had given her multiple references earlier in the week when we first started communicating.  Why is it that she started feeling uncomfortable after I had made the trek to LA.  Why not tell me this earlier in the week, before I incurred the expenses and wasted the time flying to LA for the weekend?

Fortunately it was LA, a couple of calls and I was able to book someone else and salvage the trip.  However, the lesson has been learnt.  Save for a few exceptional providers, the vast majority of porn stars are delusional and have a warped sense of self-importance.  Do not go out of your way to plan an enjoyable evening or weekend with them as you are likely to be stood up.  However, as stated previously, there are a few great providers.  I now stick with these ladies when I want to make plans for more than just an hour long appointment.  

I am indeed sorry to read about your experience but, honestly, I believe this is par for the course with a majority of PS providers.  Live and learn, I guess.  Well done in posting about this experience, she deserves to be called out for her duplicitous behavior.

I think if I was being tested, she have the decency give me notice that she was not comfortable with the trip at least the day before the trip so at least I could cancel things and try to recoup some money back.

She had my name info, contact details as well as the airline / hotel booking info from my travel agency to show her on my end, I was for real.

There is absolutely no court in this country that would side with you.

You were making a deal that was based around an illegal activity - prostitution.  As a matter of public policy, no court will enforce any contract or breach of contract based on an illegal activity.  Do you think you could sue a drug dealer in court if you paid him money and didn't get your drugs?

I am not a lawyer but this much I'm pretty sure of... your case would be dismissed before the judge even finished reading the papers you file.

Take the advice given here - move on.  You can bad mouth her and warn others of her behavior as you have done but don't expect to ever see that money again.  Write it off.  Forget about it.  Take it as payment for a lesson learned.  And get on with your life.

There are so many wonderful ladies out there who will not rip you off and show you a really good time, that it's really a waste of time and effort to fret over the losers.  Give one of the porn stars highly reviewed here a call, or contact an agency like TLC and have yourself a good time and forget about this girl.

Do you really think you would ever collect?  This is a good reason to use reputable agencies.  It's worth the small surcharge to have them take care of the arrangements.  Unfortunately, if you have done this enough you have a similar story to tell.

Posting using an alias and your primary handle in the same thread is not allowed. I've fixed that. Don't do it again- you can be banned for that.

-- Modified on 12/24/2011 7:58:46 AM

Good sex isn't cheap, if you can get it at all. That's a lesson I learned the hard way too.

You have come to the conclusion that a majority of PS are flakes based on one bad experience? I have had regular indie providers flake but I don't conclude from that one incident that most are like that. In fact my last four appointments with PS providers have all been successful ones. You shouldn't make sweeping judgments based on a small sample size of one or two bad experiences.

BTW three of the four stars I have recently seen have gone out of their way to please me and every one of the four were personable and sweet. If I had your thinking and stopped based on the one girl who flaked on me twice in two days three years ago I never would have had the recent experiences I've had.

Think about it.

My first out of state PS experience turned out fabulous.  If you look at my reviews, you will know who I'm referring to, as I am not going to name names.  She flew to me, and we had a wonderful time, she came back the next year, and we are planning on a 3rd visit next year.  Our birthdays are only 13 days apart, so I look at it as a birthday party for me with a former pornstar.  We keep in touch and she is a real doll, IMHO.  Hope you read this, you-know-who-you-are......lol

Swim