Don't be to concerned about breaking the marriage up.

Well, it is often argued on this Board that ultimately there isn't much difference between, on the one had, having sex on film for money and, on the other hand, providing as an escort.  If you believe in that argument, then you should not have any concerns about whether she is married or not.  Would it make a difference if they he were just her boyfriend?  Or if they were just engaged?

You're also making an assumption that the husband knows.  He probably does since she's not UTR but its always a possibility.

Its really not that uncommon.  If she doesn't have a problem with it, you should not either.

Ultimately, what difference does it make?  

Unless you're seeing her with the hope/expectation of sweeping her off her feet and becoming her next significant other, her marital status shouldn't be an issue.

Would you feel the same way if you found out that she had a long-time boyfriend?

You'd be surprised to find out how many pornstars are married or are in long-term relationships.

When I first started out seeing PSEs and was videotaping my meetings, I had one lady offer to have her husband be our cameraman... at the time I passed; but today I think it'd be kind of hot having hubby watching me and his wife doing the deed!  I guess I'm just getting more perverted as I get older!

Husband ALLOWS her to continue providing?!

SHe is a grown woman, and I should think that he doesn't ALLOW her to do anything.

She can do what she likes with HER body.

She's a porn star, for chrissakes.  

Why would it bother him if she sells it off-camera, when she's already selling it on camera?!

unless you believe your going about this looking for a soul mate. If thats true then i recommend
match.com or EHarmony and not TER

Re: married provider....

This may be one of those times when thinking with the little head is called for.  If your big head is going to get in the way don't go spending serious cash.  On the other hand if you can leave you rbig head outside of the room, dive right in and enjoy.

Ehhhh?

What the fuck has been happening with this board the last couple of years?

The mental quality of newbie clientele is rolling wayyyyyy downhill.

Re: married provider....

it probably happens more often than you'd imagine. My ATF has been married for many years. Her hubby shoots and edits content for her web-site and personal DVD's.

actually sweetie 95% of the girls are married,engaged, or have boy/girlfriends (myself excluded...happily single). Its just understood btw them. I, personally, could not be in love with someone and do this but thats just me. We all have our do's and dont's in life. One  view is not better or more righteous than the other. Its all on how you feel inside. Obviously it bothers you so pick another girl that suits your fancy :0)