While i always see some new girl(s) on each LA trip, i see repeats as well..I've seen one girl 10x, & several others over 4x each, so i enjoy repeats....

There is good in both. When you find a PSA that you really click with, multiple visits can result in a better, and different experience each time. Also, there are a few PSE's that I have seen that ended up retiring after I had only visited them once and I found myself regretting that I had not repeated with them more times before they quit. Nici Sterling and Aja are two that come to mind. To avoid that, I try to repeat with someone I really like so that I don't end up regretting it if they stop providing.

Well, i have seen my favorite PSE a total of 6 times so far this year.  which made me realize that I could have enjoyed 6 different PSE's instead just 1.  which brings me to the question, what is better, to see 6 different PSEs or see 1 PSE repeatedly.  for me i have enjoyed the experience, but you just can't beat the adrenaline rush of seeing someone new each time!

Girlfriends are for frequent multiple visits; beguilingly sexy escorts are for expensive one-off dates.

A noted social psychologist once wrote that the primary fantasy for men in America is "unlimited access to attractive women."

With that in mind, it would probably make more sense to see 6 different PSE's than the same PSE 6 times.

But the same social psychologist also pointed out the drive for "intimacy," and that need for intimacy would favor a GFE over a PSE.  

In the final analysis, it comes down to your own (sometimes changing) needs.  If you want the "rush" of a new girl, then see a PSE that you have not seen before.  If you want the sense of "intimacy" that can only come with familiarity (which does not NECESSARILY breed contempt), then by all means see the same PSE repeatedly, for more of a GFE.

One final thought.....some cynical members may argue that none of the PSE's are ever going to be your friend, or be interested in you as a person.  After all, almost all of them are in fact "actresses."  But as in all businesses, there are some people only interested in your money, while there are some people who are interested in your money PLUS interested in you as a person.  For example, if you were to see a provider like Sunset Thomas multiple times, I can guarantee that each visit would be better than the one before.

that is an excellent psychological analysis!  the truth is that i'm seeking intimacy, but can only find it through a PSE.  my civilian social life brings me unlimited access to semi attractive women, but no intimacy associated with any of them.  how ironic my situation is!  it is usually the other way around, i guess it's a screwed up world we live in

I love variety and always look to experience with new PSEs whenever I get the chance.

Having said that, I can never tire of seeing my current ATF, the lovely and devilish Nessa. She's my only 10/10 encounter and delivers a combined PSE and GFE experience. When she talks dirty in her sexy Czech accent, it drives me absolutely crazy. Each visit gets better and better - nasty, intense and very intimate.

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I enjoy repeats as well.  I have seen one in particular six times and then 2 additional times with doubles with other PSE provider.  I could have enjoyed others but ambivalent due to reviews.

I would second you're opinion in general on seeing the same provider multiple times, and would specifically concur with your opinion on Sunset Thomas as well........

Unless your seeing a PSE/GFE over a long, long period of time, I don't believe there is true intimacy! It's just an act of sex based on a donation. No donation and you never would get an opportunity to spend that time.

Intimacy generally refers to the feeling of being in a close personal association and belonging together. It is a familiar and very close affective connection with another as a result of a bond that is formed through knowledge and experience of the other. Genuine intimacy in human relationships requires dialogue, transparency, vulnerability and reciprocity.

In human relationships, intimacy is considered the product of a successful seduction, a process of rapport building that enables parties to confidently disclose previously hidden thoughts and feelings. Intimate conversations become the basis for "confidences" (secret knowledge) that bind people together. Developing an intimate relationship typically takes a considerable amount of time (months and years, rather than days or weeks).

To sustain intimacy for any length of time requires well-developed emotional and interpersonal awareness. Intimacy requires an ability to be both separate and together participants in an intimate relationship. It results in a connection in which there is an emotional range involving both robust conflict, and intense loyalty.

This might be the most intelligent thing I've ever read. Seriously.

Not a word was wasted, not a thought any less than profound.

Thanks for making the effort.

I'd love to blast my way into her past. Before I had an inkling that porn stars escorted I had phone sex with her in the mid 90s on a commercial line. She invited me to come see her perform at Show World in New York. I never made it. To think now how I could have made it. Aaaaaargh!

Just out of curiosity, what what her rates and how recently was she available?

Both are very appealing, imo.

The excitement of seeing a new PSE for the first time is always a rush but there's also an
advantage of seeing a provider multiple times where you can take the game to another level...