This is my first post after three years of highly valued educational lurking.
I, like a few people on the board, have a small problem/issue with pse or agency verifications.  The issie is NOT the verification (which should be done imho) or the process involved.  It is more unique and specific.
I am a matured educated middle aged man.  I  have visited a pse through Body Miracle in 2000 with great company service and accomodating pse performance.  However, since that time I have sold my business, have plenty of cash on hand, and returned to school to finish my CPA.  This means I have no job for verification, just proof I am once again a college student.  I can just see the agencies or independent's face when I call to book a pse and have no job and only a University to verify my
legitimacy or exsistance.
For once in my life I have major cash flow and the ability to "dish it out", but now I may not pass the verification process.  
How can a willing man in the situation help spread some of his cash to a willing pse in exchange for private time and economic prosperity?
From my stand point it is a no brainer.  From a pse stand point it has all the red flags an agency or provider would want to avoid.  
How does one establish ligitimacy and credibility, especially in this case?  I am ready to teat myself to some fun, and instead I may be treating myself period.
Thanks for reading guys ( and girls).

Maybe you can see someone who doesn't screen as tightly and have that PSE/escort vouch for you after you've seen her?

I just had a similar problem with a certain agency booking non porn stars. Even though over the last few years I have seen pse from BM, E2K, and quite a few others direct this agency would not set anything up with me. I gave them 4 refferneces and still no go. This seems odd since I had no problems in the past with any of the above big agencies..what am I doing wrong?

Since you were pleased with you experience with us in the past, why not select one of the many hot women available on our site. Your name will be in our secure data base, and you'll be verified within seconds of your call.

That's bullshit!  You're the customer.  If they don't want your cash.....Fuck 'em!  Plenty of awesome ladies begging for your cash.  Don't put up with this shiite.  If Mercedes Benz doesn't want my money I go to BMW, etc.

I've been playing for about 2-years now. Never have been turned-down during verification.  Had some tough one's and some requiring follow-ups but never a turn down.  I had figured my success was because I'm probably a bit more at ease in the employment verification area than a lot of guys who are really worried by this.  In fact, I'm probably on the more rare side in that I prefer employment vericiation to reference verification.  I have used references but I always felt like that was a hassle to the provider who was providing the reference.  In any case no probs until now...

Making my first reach out to a PS.  Initial info given from her site.  Did not hear back so I emailed.  She apologized and asked me to repeat or send through email.  I sent it all in email.  Have not heard back.  I'm guessing that rejections are never positively returned to the requestor, i.e. if they turn down your request they just ditch it and they don't let you know.  I don't want to seem like a pain in the ass and keep on trying (which may result in a big turn-off) so I'm waiting until the time gets a bit closer to her visit to my location.  I'm a big boy and can accept the rejection and I'll move on.  But not knowing why (assuming that is my case) is kind of frustrating.  I'm quite the pleasant and reliable catch you know!

I have worked since last year, now I finally got the time to finish law school and have no job actually. The screening is a nightmare, but maybe I will work it out, honestly I hope so I'm a long time member of this board, and noone has ever had problem with me.

I wouldn't assume that you didn't pass the verification, especially if there is no reason for that to happen. The girl is probably just behind in her clerical work. I would keep in touch with her.

Feel free to PM me with the girl's name for me to possibly give you a better read.

Sly

I've seen about 20 PSE's now, but would have seen another 7-8 more over the years had it not been for several stars' last second cancellations, or just no-showing on me after an appointment was made...

I would never no-show on an appointment, & I don't think it's too much to ask if she needs to cancel, just let client know, so other plans can be made..

There are different levels of verification depending on how and who you're booking.  Agencies for the most part do verify the heaviest.  Some independent PSEs with assistants verify as completely as agencies, but many do a lighter amount of screening, while independents who do their own bookings for the most part are the the easiest to book with minimal information.  

Also, independents with or without assistants will almost always accept a PSE reference in lieu of screening.  Most of the PSEs I know are more than willing to help thier fellow PSEs out with verification... all it takes is an email.  So until you've established yourself, stick to the independents.

The other way to make it easier to book is to become very active on boards like this.  Having reviews is of course the best way, but even without them, if the girl can go to TER or the "other board" and do a search of your screen name to see your participation on the forums she can get a sense of what you're about and may be willing to take a chance without a heavy screening.  

Also, if you establish a presence on TER, a lot of "senior hobbyists" will be willing to help you out.  I've been doing this for over six years, and I have only been verified once or twice at the beginning.  Through my active participation on the boards, there were guys who were willing to vouch for me to PSEs that they knew, and of course the PSEs I met were willing to not only vouch for me but were happy to refer me to their PSE friends.

And finally, rather than say you're unemployed or in school, you can always try saying that you're self employed, or simply say that you're retired and living comfortably off of the proceeds of the business you sold, and give them the name of the business -  The internet has made it extremely easy to find out just about anything about anyone if you're willing to spend $20 or $30 to get the info.  Given a name and address, I can find out how much money you make, what jobs you've had, and if you have any DUI's or have been convicted of any felonies - and I can do it in about 15 minutes.  If you owned a business in the recent past, it that information should be available on the web.

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I thank everyone for the valuable input.  The Body Miracle route is a viable choice.  I wish the rates were half of what they are now.  My last date w/ BM was $2800 for 4hours.  Talk about inflation!

If you have booked through Body Miracle or our service we both gladly check references for each other. Since you have used them in the past all you have to do is give your name and phone number and give us five minutes and presto, you are a verified and 100% bookable client.