he is hot, but not sure it could be described as fucked relentlessly

You seem to enjoy it, with your comments.
I would watch, one of your movies.
Then book a date with you later, if you are touring.

I would love to. But it is a dead end street .I am not sure I want to devote my whole life to the adult industry. Still hoping to get corporate job at some point  

Very smart and accurate.  Good Luck!

guys will fuck a porn star and discuss her, but upscale gentlemen won't marry one...and i am at that point where i am hoping to settle down at some pointi can just be a porn star in the privacy of bedroom  

A)  A large number are already married.

I will just say, it's better to be upfront from the beginning.
You made a change, that was not there the other day.
When I wrote this response comment.
It's just my preference, for only the real thing.

If I wasn't already married

and my preference is for real men, not bigots  

This is not about being a bigot, but you being a fraud with your business.
I am glad, I don't know you and feel sorry for the people, that were deceived by you!
They are the real victims and not you.