Providers who exclude persons of a certain persuasion are always asked why. It may be fair to ask why but there's really no point.

If there was a physical or emotional trauma involved then she has to open old wounds. That's not fair to her.

If her significant other told her she can't see a certain type of man then she'll be ridiculed.

If she isn't turned on by a certain type of guy or thinks certain groups (young, old, northern, southern, black, white, whatever) fall under the category of "icky scum of the earth" then she'll be labeled a racist pig.

My suggestion is do a search first, or ask the provider directly. Yes, the provider should list their preferences on their profile but some don't (the proverbial blonde moment I guess). Once you find out the particulars leave it at that. There are plenty of women out there who will see you and give YOU the time of your life.

I've said this before as well: never assume. I saw Stevie last year and I honestly never thought she would see me because she's never done an interracial scene that I know of. Open of your world.. don't close it

(damn.. do I need my own column or what lol)