I have been with my husband for 12 years and married for 10.  We have a really great relationship.  He is not in the least bit jealous or possessive.  We are really close and he completely understands every aspect of my business and is 100% accepting of it.  If he weren’t, we wouldn’t have lasted this long.  He’s always been a bit voyeuristic and enjoys the movies that I do and enjoys the fact that I pleasure so many men, and is turned on by it.

As far as the traveling aspect, before I traveled as an escort, I traveled as a feature dancer for 9 years.  So the fact that I travel for work has been a fact of my life for a long time.  When I travel for escorting, I usually spend a week in each city and I go on the road for two weeks at a time.  Then I go home for 3 to 6 weeks.  So I spend more time at home than I do on the road.  It works out pretty good and I stay pretty balanced.  My husband and I talk on the phone several times a day when I’m out of town.  

Not only do I have a husband, I also have a lover that I’ve been seeing for over four years.  My husband is also completely fine with this too.  I’m a very complex woman, and I’m lucky to have found two men who completely understand me and my business.  My lover and I are also very close friends and talk on the phone several times a day when I’m out of town.

My husband started out as a landscape contractor, and now he is a general contractor.  He is doing all the renovations on my new web cam house.  He is incredibly talented and the house is going to be so beautiful.

As far as my husband being with other women, he has my permission to be with whom ever he would like, but to be honest, he really is sort of monogamous by nature and rarely fools around with other women.  He is very different than most men.

I lead a very different life style than most people, but it my life totally works for me.  I have been in the adult entertainment industry for nearly 17 years.  I’m fortunate that I have to have an enjoyable and successful career.


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I am very lucky to have a man in my life that knows everythind and doesn't care. I like to bring girls home and that's just a bonus.
He has a very busy life of his own and when I am home we coexist quite happily. He likes my independence as much as I like his.