Find a provider who does.  There's lots of them.

IMO, that's not inappropriate...Inappropriate is if Ron Jeremy would have gone to Cedars/Sinai with his aortic aneurysm and the attending physician would have started asking questions about his porn career instead of treating his heart condition...

I don't do anal ever, but i have one requirement that im crystal clear about whether im contacting someone for 1st time, etc...

Your dilemma is really a sort of "Münchhausen Paradox:" you are arguing in circular fashion because your premises are misplaced.

The paradox is based on wrong premises:

a) There is no correlation between what a talent does on a porn set with what she does on an escort session. As long as you do not get out of this illogical assumptions, everything is not going to be solved. Performing anal in porn leads to release cover, huge boosting career, repeated booking with certain studios, increae casting for specialize porn niches, and so forth. Performing anal on an escort session, lead to nowhere but personal unpleasure: Incentives to do without huge compensations to off set preparation and schedule routine change are really lower.

b) Anal is not exactly a panacea of libido for the large majority of porn stars. Few really enjoy it. Preparing for anal is time consuming (depending on her body it may take between 3 to 4 hrs to prepare); it require specific diet schedule, and most importantly it changes completely your normal daily routine (lunch, gym, dog walk, shopping, stretching, make up, etc.).

c) Sexual act are not discussed anywhere before you get screened, so asking lead to nowhere. Many porn stars once have seen you and feel comfortable with you will be more than happy to accomdate your request if conditions are in place. Anal on the first meeting is a very rare occurrrence. On the second meeting is usually on the table if a talent has that onto her skills and portfolio.

d) The is a system called TER database that list which service a porn stars offer. Doing your homework is the first step to get out fo the dilemma. There are many porn stars who offer that service, which means that you can mention that once screened is on your back. Again, the fact that they offer it does not mean they like or enjoy it. Usually an extra donation signal that because the extras need to off set preparation time and all the rest.

In my experience, very few porn stars were crazy about anal, but some really enjoyed it a lot even though it wasn't planned at all. Many are quite annoyed by the continuing request of 'anal' as parcel of booking a session with a porn star as if it is a piece of cake. It is not.

Many porn star conceive anal performing as a specialty not open to everyone: Body, bones, resilience, athleticism, attitude, and lot of strenght are required to excel in the art of anal. If you plan to be a super star in porn anal is a staircase tool. No porn star I have communicated plan to be a super star in escorting...

As in the Münchhausen Paradox, those hobbyists who cannot get it, are exactly like the Baron, who allegedly pulled himself and the horse on which he was sitting out of a swamp by his own hair...

Get out of the Anal Swamp and put the "horse" out of your mind using a simple tool: Common Sense.
BM

And I offer it in my sessions, just at a higher rate. I think I deserve more, I like it and you get an amazing k divine anal experience. I take it like its nothing lol cause I do enjoy it but I do ask for a little more money wise cause I know I'm good at it.