I think it would depend on the provider. I saw my first provider this year. Obviously I had no references. I emailed and asked for a same-day appointment. She promptly replied and said that she didn't have enough time to verify my info, but she suggested meeting face-to-face. We did so and we had a nice conversation in a public place. It put us both at ease (I was nervous). She said I sounded ok on the phone and she wanted to confirm her gut-feeling in person, which she apparently did. We ultimately had a great time. I did, however, have to give all my info (name, address, phone, employer, etc) to the provider, so how will you feel about that?
I am just about to start the full Hobbying and need to know other options other than going through a "screening service" to be able to make a date with a provider. I am not comfortable with giving all of my personal information to a service that if pressed by LE might have to give up my info. I realize it is for everyone's safety but I would rather not go that far. Has anyone met a provider for a quick meeting in a public place like a hotel bar to get to know each other? Just worried about keeping this private.
I think it would depend on the provider. I saw my first provider this year. Obviously I had no references. I emailed and asked for a same-day appointment. She promptly replied and said that she didn't have enough time to verify my info, but she suggested meeting face-to-face. We did so and we had a nice conversation in a public place. It put us both at ease (I was nervous). She said I sounded ok on the phone and she wanted to confirm her gut-feeling in person, which she apparently did. We ultimately had a great time. I did, however, have to give all my info (name, address, phone, employer, etc) to the provider, so how will you feel about that?
I'm new at this myself. I met some providers at meet and greets which solves the face to face thing, but you may not necessarily meet the one(s) you want. I also did the P411 thing without a problem.
Bottom line for me is this: someone, at least the provider, has to know who I am, unless I make up a completely fake name and ID.
I would never give personal info . The BEST way to get around it is go to Canada which doesn't require screening . Make appts. with reputable agencies , unlike U S there are many , and get agency referral.
Go see a well-reviewed lady or established agency and provide all your info. It is a one time deal once you have the first appointment under the belt you will be able to provide basic info to the next dates. I learned that seeing providers who do not screen much is useless because the more established providers do not take references from such girls. High-end girls require more screening than others but it will be worth it. I stay clear from those who do not screen.
I'll be visiting the US for the first time shortly and I gotta admit, it amazes me the screening process you guys have over there. Being in a country where prostitution is legal, there's never been a need to give a provider anything more than a mobile phone number to make a booking. Most guys use an alias name, and there's never any need to give a provider your real name or work details, etc.
If only the laws were different in the US and legal in a lot more places, perhaps this invasion of privacy wouldn't be needed.
Having said all that, I know the US is vastly different to where I live, and if I manage to see anyone there that requires screening details, then I'm happy to abide by the current ettiquette there and provide those details... As they say, When in Rome .....
Unfortunately it looks like your attempt to purchase VIP membership has failed due to your card being declined. Good news is that we have several other payment options that you could try.
VIP MEMBER
, you are now a VIP member!
We thank you for your purchase!
VIP MEMBER
, Thank you for becoming VIP member!
Membership should be activated shortly. You'll receive notification!