It doesn't matter if its incall or an outcall I'm always dressed in sexy lingerie, sometimes a corset or waist cindher, always thigh hi stockings and sometimes garter belt. I also take special requests and have a large variety of other outfits, stockings, heels, gloves and more here at my incall location and have taken a suitcase of things to visit others when requested.

I don't think it has anything to do with incall or outcall but rather the lady you choose didn't know and I guess you should've made a special request before meeting her but I don't think thats typical from my experience, with the ladies that I know.

I've gotten lucky when I've spent lots of coin on fantasy overnights- the lady in question completely dolled herself up and would dress to my specifications. And I got to take pictures (on having to swear on a stack of Playboys that those pictures would NEVER find their way off of my hard drive onto the Interwebs, on pain of me never getting the time of day from her again, let alone nookie).

This lady prefers her name being kept off of here, but any of you PS ladies who like playing live-action Barbie dress up for your clients... feel free to chime in. I am sure some of you are out there.

i like incalls , but the thing that frustates me is that when you schedule an incall, you do not get to see your favorite PSE dressed up for the occasion.  from my experience all the PSE simply wear a robe and are not too elaborate on their outfit.  even though it is much more convenient, thats the one thing that is the downside.

I guess I'm not picky in this regard as I truly do not care if she shows up in jeans and a t-shirt or a designer outfit from a store on Rodeo Drive...

Last trip when i was at AIM the one day, there was a very pretty girl there who had jeans and a baseball cap on....A girl could show up that way to our appt. and that would be totally fine w/me...

My only focus is the service i want..

Part of the PSE is getting the hair, makeup, outfits and attention that only low volume, high dollar ladies can afford to give.  There has to be something tangible you get if you are going to pay 3,4 or 5 times what you could pay locally.  This is what keeps guys coming back.  

I once had a stunningly beautiful PS answer the door in a hotel bath robe.  The session went down hill from there and I never saw her again, even though we are still friendly.

It doesn't matter if its incall or outcall, we as providers are providing a service and a fantasy.  We should be dressed for the appointment regardless.  

I've seen a number of pornstars over the years and almost all of them have dressed up for the occasion.  I saw one this summer who did answer the door in a towel but then went into the bathroom and got dressed up while I waited in the hotel room.  She didn't want me waiting in the lobby and I was a few minutes early and she was a few minutes late.  Another star I saw this summer dressed up for me the first time we met and even did a little extra that I had requested... the second time I saw her I wouldn't have cared if she answered the door in a towel... but she got dressed up anyway because, as she said, she knew I liked it.

My suggestion: when you make the date - TELL HER you would like her to dress up.  If you have preferences for clothing, makeup, perfume, or anything else, tell her.  I don't know many pornstars who won't do it if you ask and those that don't, especially after you've asked, aren't worth your time or money.

There have been many times where I simply canceled the appointment from the parking lot. Reason being if they are charging me $500+ per hour and the hotel looks seedy than I cannot go through with the appointment. I expect a 5 star Hotel for that rate.

Also I do ask the lady what turns me on so that she will get the hint and wear it when I show up. I have noticed that Porn Stars do not dress up as nice as escorts on incall.

Rusty

my only concern is how should i tell her that i want her dressed ( nothing fancy, basically clothes that she would wear to a nightclub).  I don't want to sound tacky or rude by saying that I don't want her dressed in a robe, or only in lingerie.  plus to add to the difficulty is that I've never met this girl before, so i don't want to make a bad impression before we even meet!

that is exactly my dilemna.  every porn star i have seen does not dress up on incall.  the problem is you cannot leave at the parking lot because you don't know what they are wearing until walking into the door.  and by that time it is too late.

I think you guys are just picking the wrong pornstars... I don't know which ones you've seen so I can't really tell but, as I've said previously, I've never seen a pornstar who didn't dress up the first time we met...    

If you want to PM me with the names of the pornstars you've seen who didn't dress up maybe I can give you better info but I don't know any pornstar who won't dress up, especially if you ask.  But, keep in mind some things:

  - there are a lot of wannabe pornstars out there - women who've never made a film or do amateur films or a couple of vidieos for a site like bangbros... I'm not sure they can really be called pornstars.  When I think of pornstars, I think of girls who've done films for studios like Vivid, Evil Angel, Adam&Eve, etc.  The criteria I generally use is if they're not listed on iafd.com, they're not a pornstar.
   
   - the makeup you see them in on camera may be different from the makeup they're likely to wear in person.  The makeup worn on sets is designed to give a specific look under the bright lights.  You might have unrealistic expectations if you're expecting them to look exactly the same.  A professional makeup artist or some of the pornstars on this board can probably speak to this better than I.  I stopped doing theater about 35 years ago.