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Re: Etiquette question - UTR as a reference
The Moose 26 Reviews 1569 reads
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If i contact someone on my own, i do not heistate to spell out what I'm seeking service wise...I seek a certain appt. & that's it..

But, when it comes to asking a star if her friends provide, I'm actually not comfortable with that...One star whom I've booked direct for 3 years now, I've NEVER asked her to bring a friend along, nor have i asked for contact info. for anyone...It's a contrast i guess, I don't mince words on what i seek service wise, but i don't like asking a girl for info. if her friends provide...Besides, I got impression (from things she's said) she doesn't hang around fellow stars at all except for when on set...

I have an etiquette question for the more experienced voices on the board.  I have seen a certain UTR through an agency a couple of times, and was thinking that I may see her again soon as she's coming to my town again this week.  I've noticed on Twitter that she's friends with a couple of Porn Stars that, from all chatter on this board, do not provide.  But I've also heard that basically any girl is available under the right circumstances, with the right introduction and for the right money.

Is it generally well known in the industry which girls provide and which don't, or are UTR girls UTR to the rest of the industry as well?    What's the best way to ask the PSE if her friends provide, and if she'd serve as a reference to them?  I'd love to have her serve as an introduction to some girls I'm dying to see, but definitely don't want to blow her cover.  Any thoughts/recommendations?  PMs ok if you'd rather PM me.

You can ask anything you want. That doesn't mean that the lady you know will be willing to out either herself or another woman.  I don't see porn stars but I do see UTR's and, as a rule, they don't give references. It's obviously a bit different with porn stars so who knows?  I don't see the harm in asking the gal you know about other porn stars.  I just don't know that you should expect a straight answer.

fasteddie512066 reads

UTRs usually know other UTRs and once they know you're trustworthy will usually be willing to share info and give you a reference.  It's totally proper to ask her if she knows any other UTRs and if so, if she'd be willing to vouch for you.

It is NOT proper, however, to contact one of her twitter friends and use her as a reference without asking her first.

Yeah... don't ask anything on a public forum. Twitter, myspace, etc. If she does provide, she'll probably will deny it.

If i contact someone on my own, i do not heistate to spell out what I'm seeking service wise...I seek a certain appt. & that's it..

But, when it comes to asking a star if her friends provide, I'm actually not comfortable with that...One star whom I've booked direct for 3 years now, I've NEVER asked her to bring a friend along, nor have i asked for contact info. for anyone...It's a contrast i guess, I don't mince words on what i seek service wise, but i don't like asking a girl for info. if her friends provide...Besides, I got impression (from things she's said) she doesn't hang around fellow stars at all except for when on set...

mrfrench1736 reads

There's no harm in asking, and you can be quite surprised by the response.

I once asked a UTR PS (after we had a good time together) about another PS and was told that the second PS does not and will not provide.   About a week later, I got an email from the first PS telling me, essentially, that if I paid her regular fee for her time, she could arrange a 3-some with the second PS.

If you don't ask, you never know...

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