CIM is not a big deal for me, i don't have a preference on that one way or the other...

I do have a specific requirement & if i contact someone new i am upfront about it...Those who have said no, we had a civil exchange no judgment on my end or thiers, thus we didn't meet, naturally....Before the 3-some i did last month, i asked the one regular several different times if so and so was fine w/everything, she was obviously, and it was a great evening...Effective communication is important in this lifestyle, just as it is in life..

I saw a well known porn star. It was only for a half an hour.
But I paid $500 , and then an extra $100 for top off plus a tip.

However she wouldn't let me cim or cof. Said I needed an STD test.

I feel this was just an excuse. I told her I had recently got one less than a month ago.
But that wasn't "close enough".

And get this. Most of her reviews show most guys could cim or cof.

I don't believe this lady asked each and every one of those guys to produce an STD report a few days earlier before the session. Many of those reviews were first timers to see her.

I just want a fantasy pse finish. Why is it so hard for cof?

The only ladies that let me cof are over 45 years old.

Nikita Denise, Chennin Blanc, Ashley Shye and Debi Diamond all come to mind as girls who are fairly active on these boards and/or have been reviewed recently that I have spent some quality time with and got a very enthusiastic PSE finish every time.  And if you're on the East Coast & can track down Venus, she's way into it!

All the girls ive seen were eager to take a facial...or gulp it down. I guess research the reviews..thats the best I can say

So...if you felt she was not truthful with you and dis not give you what you expected, why did you tip her and then not ID her in your post?  Kind of sounds like you are not really that upset.

On the test issue, if u did not have a copy of the results with you, one could see why she would say no.  She does not know you well enough to trust you.  If you were a regular, it might be different.

Your best future practice would be to let the PSE know ahead of time what you are looking for.  If she agrees and then backs out, you can be rightfully upset.

Thanks for the great feedback. I probably should ask beforehand. Sometimes it's hard to do so, it's a touchy subject.  I've had prospective providers hang up on me when I asked about it over the phone.
re: lady, I was upset about it before and felt singled out, but it seems like it's her new rule as others have confirmed with me. Understandable as some stds are getting out of control..

Is there any other place cum belongs??

Who wants to blast a load inside ... of a condom. *Wink*

XoXoX

~ Lorsha

Maybe I've been lucky but every porn star that I've been with has let me cum in her mouth, and some of them even swallow!

Something I think you need to understand that hasn't been said here yet... and it goes for any escort not just porn stars: just because a review said that she did something with the reviewer, it doesn't necessarily mean that she will do it with YOU.

The ladies that work as escorts all have the right to say "no" or "yes" to any activity, whether it's cim, cof, anal, bareback or whatever it is that the client asks for.  And, in each situation, they judge whether or not they are willing to do any particular activity.  Sometimes, it's about the money, sure - more money will sometimes get more "service".  But, most of the time, it's how you look or smell, or about chemistry, or how she is feeling that day, or what she's recently heard or experienced about STDs, or what her agent/manager/boyfriend/husband/girlfriend says is ok, or what her limits are, and how far she wants to bend or break them or something else entirely.  It's her decision.  And just because she does something with me when I see her, doesn't mean she'll do it with you when you see her.  Things change.

Like others have said, there ARE porn stars out there who will do cim or cof.  I've been with several.  While this site (and others) are good for getting a general flavor of what a session with an escort will be like, you never know.  Each experience is different.  If you want something in particular, discuss it with her BEFORE the session - if you can.  Not everyone is comfortable talking services in advance.  It's best to be up front about it - it'll save everyone time, and possibly save you money if that particular escort isn't right for you.

Hope this helps.

Thanks. I'm well aware the situation may change. Strange. Most providers are happy with me. Some even say they will let me cof, then pull away pretending that I did when I sure didn't except in their hand. Irritating. Lucy and the football. Then when I leave they always call me "nice" or "cute". Not sure what I did to turn them off from cof finish except asking about it. Anyways I'll be sure to report it in my reviews. I've wasted too much money looking for this. While other guys are getting their money's worth.

A superb reply. Wouldn't have changed a word.

not many have allowed cof, i think i only did that with 2 out of i believe 5 of them.  many more allow cim, i guess its a makeup thing.  to date, the best bbbjcimws has been with a PS. i can still imagine that sensation of her completely draining me until i had to beg her to stop.  i have only seen porn "stars that were in there 20's, 1 in there 30's.  its tough to find cof.

Alexis May was very compliant with every wish I had (including putting out little notes in our Vegas hotel inviting anyone interested to join us for a gang bang). But when it came to cumming on her face, she demurred. Her reason might be illuminating to the discussion: "I don't want to get it in my hair."

to ask about cof beforehand . I tried asking about it and contacting seven different providers over the weekend initially via email or voice message, who were currently "online" on CV or Hplex. No reply except for one who was upset at me for even asking that and said she was uncomfortable with ever seeing me. I'm usually a gentleman , so it's against type for me to ask this crudely and I'm embarrassing myself needless to say. At this point, I'll just say providers and ps don't do cof in general and make sure to figure that in your donation. Not saying it doesn't happen, but extremely rare. I'm going to stop asking about it before I get blacklisted further. This was a stupid thing to do. I really wanted to meet that lady..

I've only seen 1 PS - but we talked about a recent scene she did and I asked her to swallow - she liked I followed her work.  No COF yet......

don't you ask in advance though?

i think it's bes to bring everything to the table to discuss.