It definitely depends on the provider, I see one who provides pse. It is highly energetic non stop whatever I want besides anal. But there are others who go with it more or less.

Evreyone is different on their PSE definition, that can be argued all day...I've been crystal clear without ambiguity in what i book, & am spending the time/money to TTS or CET test, and there are no exceptions to it - ever..I dont like anal at all, so that doesn't matter...

It always depends on the provider.

Think of it this way: how many porn videos do you watch?  Do all the girls perform the same on camera?  Some look up at the guy while they're sucking him, some don't.  Some moan loudly, some don't.  Some like their hair pulled, some don't.  And on and on and on.  Just like their performances are all different on camera, their performances are going to be all different in person.  

Also, it depends a lot on the chemistry between you when you meet.  If she's not attracted to you at all (for whatever reason) she may only give a basic performance - maybe a bj ( probably covered) and some straight sex.  But, if she likes you, she may be as wild, or even wilder as she is on camera and anything goes and you can probably expect bbbj, anal, and whatever else you want (but don't expect bareback unless you have test results in hand!).

If you're like Moose and want it bareback, or have any special requests (anal, dom/sub, fetishes, etc.), I'd recommend going through an agency until you make enough connections to be known as "safe".  That way you can discuss what you want with the agent who can steer you toward girls who will be your type and willing to do your special requests.  

Be aware though that if a girl doesn't like something (like anal) she won't do that no matter what even though she says she provides a PSE.  If she's not comfortable with you, she won't engage in bondage play.  

So, as I said, it's different with different providers and your best bet is to go through an agency that you can work with who will recommend girls you will like and will do what you like.