Just wondering, what is the proper etiquette when contacting a PS directly via thru email? Any tips on not sounding awkward? What if they wonder where you got the info and how do you respond? Lets say you have some requirements (BBBJ, DFK, Videotaping, whatever, etc.), how do you bring it up in the email or do you wait a couple of emails into you get into those details? Any help would be greatly appreciated.
It would really help me.
Good question!
My suggestions would be the following:
One, if you're contacting her through a website email, try to find out if it's really her that answers her own email. Some pornstar sites are run by companies, and the lady has no active participation. In other cases, it's a husband or boyfriend that handles the email, and unless he's actively booking her for private encounters, at best you'll get a reply from him posing as her denying availability.
If you've made sure that the lady in question is indeed answering her own email, but you don't know for sure if she is available, give her a few compliments like "you're my favorite all time adult star", etc., mention to her that you'll be in her home town or that you saw that she was coming to yours, and REPECTFULLY ask if she ever "sees fans privately". Don't be explicit, and don't get into specifics at that time. If she replies in the affirmative, either exchange a few more emails working out the times and dates or else ask if she'll provide a phone number so you can speak to her directly. When you reach that point, then you can discuss specific performance issues, but again, do it respectfully and in a non-vulgar way.... maybe mention that you really like the GFE type of experience, that you're really into kissing, etc.
If you know for a fact that she escorts, just say that her name came up at a party or business lunch, and a gentleman there had mentioned that he had spent some private time with her and gave you her number and/or email address. From there, proceed the same as above.
Above all, remember that this lady doesn't know you from Adam, so all the risk is on her end.... be polite, non-pushy and act like a gentleman.... and if she says NO, apologize and tell her that you must have been miss-informed. I'd go as far as to write her an apology email a few days later, telling her that you meant no offense, but she had always been one of your favorites and that it had been a lifelong fantasy of yours to meet her.... etc. That could turn a no into a maybe or even a yes.
Hope that helps