so that fellow hobbyists like yourself can avoid these so-so gals, and the gals have incentive to not be so-so.  

You can delay the review up to 90 days, and even use an alias, so you should not have too many concerns about retribution.

Some thoughts:

- Wait until the last possible moment to post the review and still have it count to your VIP credit.
- As much as possible remove the details that would make you easily identifiable. Any specific or unique events.
- You really should post it. If you had a bad experience, others should know. It is why a site like this was created, to inform those in the hobby of people to see and people to avoid.  
- You never know, others may have had the same experience and may be hesitant to post as well. Maybe if they see that another had a bad experience, they would be willing to share their bad experiences as well.  
- If this is an agency you plan on doing business with again in the future, you could always caveat it that it was just an unfortunate experience or some sort of similar phrasing.
- Look at the posters on here and their reviews. Find people who based on what they posted on here and their reviews you feel you can trust. Then message them privately and get their opinion what to do and/or ask them if they have had experiences with the person you saw or the agency you went through.  

I never post a bad review.  No one has a "right" to my experience or my review.  It is up to me.  If the hour is flat-out bad (and I have had a few) or just disappointing (and I have had quite of few of that flavor) I simply do not post a review.  

That is my choice as to how I want to hobby.  There is so much negativity in this world that I just don't want to add to it.  This is the girl's livelihood (and the Agency's too, but my policy is the same whether or not an Agency is involved) and I do not want to hurt a girl's ability to earn a living.  If we did not click, I chalk it up to me or the barometric pressure or whatever.  (I did post one bad review once long ago because it was a rip-off, upsell Backpage girl, but that was early in my hobbying and a girl like that would never even catch my attention in 2015, but I thought guys deserved to be warned.)  

Long ago I did try to give girls feedback, but I quickly (well, maybe slowly) learned that that was not something any girl seems to want, particularly a poor performing girl.

One thing I do differently if an Agency is involved is I am willing to give the Agency feedback, good and bad, but if bad I do not put it in a review.  For instance, I was just contacted by an Agency asking me if I wanted to see "X" when she returned to my town and I replied "thanks, but no" as every time I see her (and another girl recently sent), the Agency has her booked so solid that (1) the hour starts late; (2) the hour ends early; (3) the time in between is rushed; and (4) their girls are literally running on fumes and seem both physically and mentally exhausted on the road, so it is just no fun.  The Agency offered to let me be the first one she saw the night she flew in before she started seeing anyone the next day, but as I pointed out, that was precisely the problem; they were not letting their girls get any rest or downtime on the road and the poor girls are just spent resulting in a pretty poor experience.  Not sure that feedback was welcome, but at least it did not appear in a review.  

One upside of my personal philosophy is that over the years several agencies have known that they run little risk with letting me be the first guy a new girl on their roster sees.  If I like her, I will write a great review and have it up quickly because I love the thrill of being able to sing a girl's praises who delivers a fantastic experience.  If I do not like her, at least their girl had a safe first appointment (and the Agency may get some early feedback to offer the girl).  Or something like that.  

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I'm basically a lurker, don't post any reviews and rarely if ever post on any boards. However, I had kind of a similar dilemma last year: saw a nationally known provider who at the time had predominantly 9s and 10s. However I noticed that she had 1 kind of negative review that had been posted within the prior 6 months and a second so so review that basically hinted at the same complaints as the negative review. I let the volume of 9s and 10s win out in the end and I saw her.  HORRIBLE F'ING MISTAKE. She was way worse than even the what the bad review of her posted. Her pictures were clearly photo shopped, she looked and acted like a knock off Snookie, didn't find her very attractive at all, service was the definition of half-assing it and at the end of it all, which I ended early (a lot early) she kept pushing me to do a double with her and a porn star friend of hers (who I won't name) but who I later did verify does doubles with her. That porn star is now on my no fly list.

Back to your post: I wish I had posted a review to warn people at what an absolute joke of a provider she was. I got caught up with work and just never got around to doing it. I just checked her profile before posting this and her scores have come down and there have been some not so nice reviews, but still a lot of "good" reviews of her. I can't believe that anyone would see her now after the not so nice reviews, and I kind of wonder if the guys who left "good" reviews either never really saw her, are hoping to garner favor with her, or are just delusional. So, I wish I had posted my two cents and I think by asking the question, you feel like you should as well.  You should do it, if for no one but just yourself.

You should post your review.  

First of all, unless you told the girl or the agency your handle on TER, they're unlikely to link a review to you.  Second, in my experience, the agencies want to know when particular girls are not "up to par".  They don't want to keep a girl around if she isn't doing a good job (like any business .  

And, last, I think it says somewhere that all reviews are works of fiction so what difference does it make?

Hello  
  I am a provider and a movie girl.  I agree that you should be able to post an honest review and as well all the reviews porn star or other should be unsolicited and honest.  I personally never expect a review but am pleasantly happy most times to see what people have written.  
However I have seen providers whom do call out any review below a 7 and bash the person not only to other providers but very publicly on twitter and other sites.  
It is not just limited to porn stars, it is in general with providers . Not every provider is going to act that way , but I watch some whom do it regularly. I would suggest before you see someone to check out not only TER and ads but look at their social media and see if they are talking shit on twitter about others. Then make a decision if seeing that person is a good idea in case it doesn't go perfect.  One consistency I have noticed is if they rant once they will rant more times

Post or don't post.  It's up to you.  Considering the generally higher price for porn stars I believe it's that much more important to post reviews of your time with the ladies.

Not posting a review, even the bad ones, is doing the whole business a dis-service. Many of us rely on the reviews to choose those we want to spend money and time on.

If a person doesn't post an honest review, it means that provider will continue to do bad service until someone finally comes forward and shares honestly.

If a provider does not want a bad review, then they should provide good service. If things don't click between parties, there are other things that should occur, however even that can be alluded too in the review.

You need too!

This is a customer service business.  At the end of the day, if a providers service is so so then it should be reviewed as well.  Many guys get ripped off because of this.  A girl has 10/10 reviews and a guy is super excited to see her and then gets a so so performance, not cool.  For $1200 that session better be out of this world.  I think most veteran girls no this, both porn stars and regular providers alike.  IMO thats why we see said named providers in the general discussion boards posting asking for help on how to get a review deleted.  It's not that the review is bad or wrong, it's that a client finally had enough of the bs and decided to post a review against the grain.  Bottom line is we (clients) are expected to spend X amount of dollars and be gentlemanly, and follow said rules, then the provider should hold up her end of the bargain and provide a service that is top notch.