Nothing makes me loose interest more than provider saying P411 Is accepted, than requesting additional referrals, than asking for biz email and drivers license...

Why are not the first two acceptable?  I'm all for safety but I'm not doing all that.  Thoughts?

is to move on.  But p411 listing is easier to get for clients than for providers.  As clients we want to see p411 listing AND reviews.  Providers can see our listing, but where do they find reviews of us?   So they do additional screening.