Myself, I have always had trouble asking the ladies if they meet the requirements that Doc has given.They are excellent requirements because if the ladies agree to them,then even if you don't do everything, you have increased your chances for a sexually successful meeting.
      My problem is how to actually ask. We've  been educated not to bring up explicit requirements but I know that if I did it would prevent disappointment in both parties.
      Please forgive my timidness, but how in the heck do you bring all these things up without offending or scaring someone?
      Just another step along the way to a phd in pse eh Doc?

I approach the ladies as if I was approaching a lady for a serious relationship since I only meet those I have fantasized with.

When I feel that she is comfortable then I tell her politely what I expect from the meeting and if she is comfortable or not, at that point is were I agree or not to meet them and vice versa.

YES, I have been turned more times that what many of you think and for the reasons why I have not been able to meet my Ultimate ATF because neither will adjust each others rules, something I truly respect and admire of  her and she knows who she is and  she reads this board as well.

I never rush things but work things. Be patient and gentleman at all times and always show respect for them something that they seldom get while shooting scenes and/or featuring. I am come from the old school so it is easy for us old timers to put the spell on them but with outmost respect at all times.

You probably stayed the same way or you might think I am B.S. you but that is my sincere approach, which could take 1 call or an e-mail to tons of calls or e-mails that the lady and I end up in the same zone or not.

Cheers,

Seth A/K/A The Doctor
PS. I must add, because I get lots of referrals and since the ladies talk amongst each other, most of them know, beforehand what I expect from them prior of me even talking to them.

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