The most common post type on this board are ISOs.  The usual answer is either: yes she does search the board, no she doesn't, or maybe she's UTR.

I was chatting with another hobbiest recently and made a very interesting discovery.  A very famous porn star that has widely known to not provide, indeed did.  So why do so many say she "isn't interested in doing that"?  In a word: connections.

If a guy has access to UTRs, it's because he has established himself in the community and connected with people that can tell him about and introduce him to UTRs.  When a guy finally gets with a famous UTR, he don't boldly declare it on a board.  If he did, it would violate the trust of the person who refered them to the UTR in the first place.

It is my belief that 99.9% of porn stars, adult models, and even regular girls in Hollywood are open to this hobby.  It's just a matter of putting in the time to establish a connection.  Granted, it's much easier to just go to a provider that is above the radar.  But no woman is unobtainable.

. . . that men were only as loyal as their opportunities dictated.  In other words, that all guy will cheet if given the opportunity.  The way to avoid cheating is to avoid putting yourself in situations with opportunities.  At the time I was loyal to my wife and thought he was full of it.  But as I mulled on it, I felt he was right.  The only reason I had not cheated was because I went out of my way not to.  But even the head of the church choir will cheat, if the hot girl in the choir makes even a minimal effort.  Guys wanna fuck girls.  End of evolutionary story.

And evolution-wise, girls want security, someone to care for their offspring, to take care of them, provide for them.  That translates into prostitution.  Any girl will open her legs for money and percieved protection.  From JFK's widow to the Applebee's waitress who you slip a $20 tip for a single beer.  I've fuck a lot of pornstars and traveling dancers who other guys claim won't provide.  How.  Ben Franklin.

Or as Chris Rock said, A man is only as faithful as his options.

I don't know if it's 99.9%, but many more do than the average person would believe.  Even more so, there are many, many Playmates, Pets, Maxim and FHM models, fitness models, runway models and even a few swell known actresses that do or did earlier in their careers.

You are correct when you say it comes down to connections... connections and a fairly large wallet, because many of the UTRs don't do one hour meetings; you need to be able to spend big bucks for an evening date, with prices ranging from $10,000 to as high as $100,000!

I think that for the most part, we All have our  price.

I'll bet that's where my buddy heard it.  LOL

For me, the simplest way is to not get married, or if I do, marry someone who's cool with what I'm doing (or joins in hehe). I have friends who are married who see other people and it's just not worth the risk for me.

I'm not condemning anyone, just doing what works best for me.

It's just like a lot of the veterans on this board tell us, just need the right opportunity at the right time at the right place at the right amount of money. ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN.

There's the old George Bernard Shaw anecdote, which I was trying to find on Google, but it seems only the punchline has made it through history in its entirety.

The anecdote goes something like this. Shaw was talking with a famous actress of his day. He offered her some outrageous sum to sleep with him. She agreed. Then he counter offered with an outrageously low sum. She said something along the lines I'm not a "prostitute" or whatever term they used back then.

Shaw's often quoted reply to this:

"We've already established what you are, ma'am. Now we're just haggling over the price."

I think it was Oscar Wilde to whom that was attributed

Wilde liked to bugger 12-yr old boys!

but i also don't believe it was Shaw

unless someone can dig up an authoritative source/reference

It was Winston Churchill

Many of you know me as a LONG TIME hobbyist. Recently, I was introduced to a gentleman in LA by the owner of a few video companies. I was simply told..."anyone is available."

And it's true. There has been none who wasn't available. Only some scheduling conflicts. But even the ones I thought would never, apparently will.

Candidly, I'm getting a little tired and broke.

But it's still fun!

it's been attributed to both Shaw and Churchill as well as Mark Twain!

now why these erudite men got their named linked to a quote about hobbying is beyond me! i suspect it's manufactured internet lore

anyone have a *definitive* source? like the Library of Congress!?  

LOL