Lately when I'm watching porn I notice that, one, there isn't much kissing any more, and two, the guys are unbelievably bad at it.  As the girl moves into to kiss the guy, his tongue is stretched out while she's still inches away from his mouth!

I don't know about the rest of you, but kissing to me is an important part of any provider meeting.  Personally, if a girl is a great kisser, she can get me hard with a sensuous kiss faster than she could if she walked into the room, dropped to her knees and started to blow me.

Here's a scene with Candi Evans and Jerry Butler that is what good porn was all about... no dick slapping, no gagging; it's two people making love instead of just fucking, and to me it's hotter than most anything that's being put out there today.

No doubt that I've been a fan since, oh, about 1983 or so???  For about a week straight, all these refs are fuckin killin' me!!!!!  Damn, if she'd only "unretire" and provide.

Absolutely necessary for great porn. Here's a clip that I found. I was even more turned on by the great kissing....

I agree ED its a huge turn on and a must in any session.DFK all the way

Yeah, no kidding.  Too often in contemporary porn if there is any kissing at all it is more fencing with tongues as foils instead of real passionate kissing.  

I also have to agree that there is no better way to start a session with a provider than with some close in body contact and deep kissing.  Of course there is always that brief moment of embarrassment: “Can she feel how hard this has gotten me?” A hold over from  ‘civilian’ date thinking.   Then I recall: “Who cares, that’s just the response she wants and expects.”  Gotta love the being-with-a-provider experience.  

I couldn't agree more.  
For me, no DFK = no appointment!

Good kissing is a huge turn on in porn... absolutely essential in my opinion.  I have little patience for the typical stabbing tongue action; any movie where the kisses look real and passionate instantly makes my favorite list.

You haven't lived til you've kissed Kathy Willets! Our lips locked and I felt it all the way down to my toes!

She is a great kisser, if they dont dfk its a deal breaker for me

IMO kissing is way overrated unless its with your significant other. It has to mean something for me and being with a provider doesn't have the same effect as with being with someone that I deeply care for. As for kissing in porn, I am watching a movie to get off on, romance is not important in a porn movie.

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I'd take her home to meet my mother

Let's face it, it's not just the guys.  Too many porn girls do that silly, unerotic tongue-flicking maneuver that makes them look like a lizard searching for a fly.  While I don't watch much guy-girl porn anymore I do agree it's a lost art even in girl-girl porn.  That's why when two girls really kiss each other it can be as hot as watching them DATY.  As for a provider session, I can count on one hand the really good kissers I've met over the years.  Some girls think a good kiss means stretching their mouths open wide in a mimic of a yawn; some others think a quick peck and a flash of tongue is enough; and far too many think the kissing is over once the old in-out starts.  To the handful of girls who understand the erotic art and value of kissing, my heartfelt thanks.