does anyone else on here follow her on twitter? the reason i ask is b/c i do and some of her latest tweets just turned me off and made me look at her differently.
Yeah. I have been following her for a while, and I must say, I am turned off by her attitude. I haven't seen her in person and, based on what she says on her twitter, I'm not going to see her. She is highly materialistic, and seems very immature in regards to the way she thinks of herself and others. She might be a sweet girl during one of her sessions, but like she says on her twitter, it's all an act to get the money.
you would think her attitude would be different, but it's not. i really like the fact that she stereotypes different races of people.
She's hot as hell and I'd still fuck her if I was ever lucky enough to be in the right place at the right time.
well i'm sure you can fuck her if you are in the right place, all you have to do is book her thru one of the agencies. i for one will not be booking her.
kind of can't blame her though because it's about getting what she wants for being her. (sort like the Paris Hilton attitude which now kind of the new norm) I used think she was really hot but lately it is about getting people to send her stuff (and who can blame her, how many suckers are there out there with money and no common sense) and I am not really impressed.
There are so many more providers out there that bring a non-materialistic attitude to the table?
But basically you can thank the guys who have no game, lots of money and rationalize that "if I buy her stuff, maybe she'll like me enough" and do this kind of stuff.
The best gift that is ever given is the one that is unexpected and from the heart. I gave a provider a book of erotic art for her coffee table and had the best session of my life. It wasn't expensive, it was something she was into and it was something it was apppreciated.
(besides, look at this way, all the stuff she's asking for is trendy crap which will be out of style in as couple months, if you want to look at decent gift list, look at Asa Akira's, she has kitchen equipment on hers, along with books, tennis shoes and a couple of high price items which I guess is sort like pie in the sky stuff and no I haven't bought anyone like that anything)
i could care less about her asking for gifts and stupid shit, it is her attitude that i have a problem with. she said in one tweet that she likes black guys in her personal life, which i have no problem with. when asked why she said it was b/c of the their swag. i had asked what if i a white guy had black guy swag and her response was that would be a possibiltiy but they would probably have small dicks. she is stereotyping people on theier race and thats what i don't like. now i also did see that she had asked for people to buy her gifts. i perosnally told her i wouldn't buy her anything, her response to me was i would never have a shot at dating her. it just seems like she has a fucked up attitude.
I was thinking about booking her but was going to see who I know that knows her and work the indy angle first. Her being all about the cash is nothing new and what is the old saying…we have established what you are; now we are haggling over the price, or something close to that.
But I have a problem with someone who says they prefer to date blacks, especially a Latina. I will not be making any effort to see her or watch her movies.
so what exactly is wrong with a dating Black's? and what does her being Latin have to do with it?
I have found twitter to actually be a very good tool in my selection process. I cant begin to tell you how many Porn stars I almost forked over cash too, that I looked up via twitter and was utterly turned off by. Seriously I could start a list but I wont lol. There are several that I have actually lost attraction for since reading there immature post. I just cant see why anyone would want to see a provider that has no problem telling the world about it 1 hour later (peja stojakovic) or a provider that keeps such a high profile and endlessly run her mouth about random crap. It's too much money involved to have your discrete business be fodder for the internet. If there is one provider that there stock has defintily gone up for me it is Sara Jay. I always like her but the fact that she basicly only uses twitter as an advertising means just makes her that muh hotter to me.. same goes for Charley chase who though talks about her everyday life, comes off as a really sweet person that I would love to pay to see.
Ladies who use Twitter to let the world know how they really feel about providing, men, etc. are making a huge mistake. They're selling a "fantasy." By putting the "reality" out there for all to read is just plain stupid. But, of course, that's the appeal of Twitter. It's all about "me!" Constantly!
nothing wrong with talking about who you like or what you like, i don't mind that. the problem i have is when you start to stereotype people based on their race. she is the only ps that i have seen do this.
i challenge you to name one PS who does not post a wishlist of gifts on her website! just about all of them post a list of gifts which they want from fans. so are you saying all PS's are materialistic? by the way, i'm sure if you have a session with lela, any racial thoughts or attitudes would surely be set aside during the session. i was turned off not by lela's attitude, but from her tattoos on her back.. i believe recently she has had her entire back tattooed!
i never said i had a problem with her posting a wish list. because of her racial thoughts i won't see her.
And here's her website...no gifts requested.
IMHO Adriana ought to be the prerequisite pornstar...
thanks for posting her info too many pornstars to keep up with yeah shes seems like a real freak and nice too to boot which is always a bonus for sure whats her hourly rate? anyone know?
Well, there's a few thousand dollars I can now spend elsewhere.
I've seen her---if her tweets or what she says offend, there's a way to make her STFU---and she kind of likes it. And she's really good at it.
I don't see pornstars because I want to get their views on the transition plans for the government in Egypt...
She makes very few comments that aren't a turn off. So if I have the same "swag" (confidence, arrogance?) as a black guy then I probably have a small dick? That is ridiculous, uneducated, nonsense. After reading her tweets I would definitely not be interested in seeing her. Good way to alienate a large group of potential customers.
I too was once in lust for Ms. Star, after seeing her in a movie, but after reading some of her tweets, i was not impressed, and basically never thought about her again.
that in no way am i trying to tell anyone not to see her. i'm just speaking from the little interaction i ha with her and from reading her tweets. if you can look past all that or don't have a care in the world and would like to meet up with her then by all means do it. all i was trying to do was to get people to see how she really feels.
Her online behaviour is reprehensible to say the least. I thoroughly enjoyed her musings concerning finding black athletes and how much she abhors white men. Or how about her usage of laxatives to lose weight? She is extremely immature, materialistic, racist, ignorant, narcissistic...I could go on. She definitely is the embodiment of narcissism. Her twitter makes me sick to the stomach, and I wish I were exaggerating.
Every time a black hobbyist would call out Devon, Briana Banks, etc for refusing to see black clients, FastEddie, SOFLA, et al would attack the hobbyist saying the escort merely stated a preference.
I've read every response to this thread and I don't see the same kind of blacklisting myself and other hobbyists experienced simply for calling a PSE racist toward blacks.
If you fly from Atlanta to L.A. and lose a deposit (plus air fare and hotel) because Briana Banks is racist, other hobbyists deserve to know so they can save their money for other PSEs. That's why TER was invented. We deserve to protect ourselves from bad experiences with escorts.
So, we're oppressed from any discussion that involves calling an escort racist to blacks, even if it involves protecting other black hobbyists? Yet, you've said far more inflammatory things here and there's no censorship? I fail to see how her being a latina factors into anything.
My privileges have been severely decreased on site since the 90s and I didn't say half of what PJCHAMP said.
In hindsight, maybe it isn't a double standard so much as a new era.
Maybe the current moderators, such as yourself, are more permissive.
But in the past, if we said we were offended by the racism of a white porn star, we would be attacked by the moderator; He would say everyone deserves a preference and that it isn't racism.
I'm not talking about you, I'm talking about someone who's no longer with us.
Does a PS have an absolute right to decide who they work with, on film or doing privates? Yes. Even if the reasons are completely shitty, racist, whatever. Her body, her rules.
That being said, people have the right to comment on it, and everyone can make up their mind who they want to see and who they don't. I see my job as moderator is to make sure the information's out there for informed decisions.
I don't personally feel like jumping into threads like that and defending certain behaviors, because while they might have the right to do what they do, the right to do something is NOT the same as condoning or encouraging it, and I feel it sucks to get the short end of the stick when it comes to racism.
you must have not read the whole post, i even said i could careless who she prefers. what i don't like about her is that she is racist and stereotypes people.
Not sure what you guys are reading. I think that some of you are reading into her tweets stuff that is not there.
Keep in mind that on Twitter most of the time you are reading only one half or part of a conversation.
Keep in mind that sometimes humor does not always come across in the written word the same way that it does verbally. If you do not know someone personally, you do know their sense of humor or the nuance of their personality.
Bottom line is that I think that there have been some unnecessarily harsh comments made here.