Does anyone have an update regarding whether she provides?  I’ve seen some vids of her with fans

I do not believe she provides.

I emailed the address in her last Eros ad (which was last year or in '24) and it was her assistant. The assistant told me that Ember requires a video chat/call through SextPanther or Mynx before she'll see someone. Me personally I'm unlikely to  go through paying to video chat when others like Skin Diamond didn't require I sign up to a website to do a call. (Or pay them directly to facetime, google meet, etc).

But if you're willing to, no shade from me. You should know that Ember is currently trying to complete a non-adult feature film (she's either producing or executive producing it) so she may not even be in the space to take random peen lol.