statistics say condoms break 1 every 100; has anyone ever had a breakage?  and what was the result?

pregnancy or std happens during condom use about 1.5% of the time. However, most of the failure is due to misuse or just not putting the condom on at the start of sexual activity. If people were more reliable about how and when they use condoms, the "failure rate" would be significantly lower.

And if you do want to decrease condoms breakage, use extra condom compatible lube.

That's up for people to decide as to what they want to do, we are all adults here...The appts. I'm booking next month are non-condom....And yes, AIM is the first stop after coming back from Hawaii...

sorry, but i feel compelled to call you out on something here. and i'm sure i'm not the only person on this board who's thought about this. mind you, i don't mean to be impertinent (so don't take it that way) i'm just curious

why is it that in nearly every post you broadcast your plans for upcoming BBFS sessions and the timing of your AIMs tests?

are you proselytizing? and/or are you so proud of your particular way of hobbying? and/or are you "recruting" other hobbyists to follow in your path?  seriously, what is the reason?


i'm not making a moral point here. for example, i happen to like brunettes over blondes, but (to complete the analogy) you don't see me talking up brunettes in every post, do you?  

Why is it so many people bitch about rates?...Why is it so many people make hypothetical posts like "Which Hollywood star would you like to see escort"?...I haven't seen you call out others for bringing up topics frequently?..Quite hypocritical is it not..

I do bring up BBFS (on posts), but generally in context of the topic being started by someone, or, in cases like yours, people who have this need to lecture others on what people should do....And, I think i used several good analogies in past posts to exemplify hobbyist hypocrisies...I don't take well another hobbyist lecturing me on what the do's/don'ts of this hobby are or should be....

I absolutely could care less what others do, I don't seek the advice & consent of others, & I'm never going to tell anyone what to do...When my VIP expires in a few weeks, I will not renew it again, EVER...The only PM's I've exchanged all year dealt with election/political topics anyway, NOT escorts...

I had one come apart, once. The shredded remains were down around the base of my dick, when I pulled out. The condom was applied and used properly. We lucked-out: no problems as a result.

I've never quite trusted them since that experience, but it's still the best protection we have going for us--outside of abstinence.

U.

it's not about lecturing really, not me you, nor you i. that wasn't the point

i merely inquired about a quirky observation (fact) that is i'm guessing obvious to even the most casual reader of this board: that you (alone) seem to "boast" of your routine BBFS sessions in nearly every post

look, i myself NEVER use condoms for oral (and wouldn't see any provider who did) but again, i don't bring this up in every other post, even if the topic *was* about condom use. (except now i suppose, where i just did! LOL)


THAT was my point, that it sorta looks like you are a "crusader" of sorts. which is neither wrong nor right, it just is (apparently)

On a board where numerous posts are "boasts" (ie; "I saw this star, I paid for 2 hours & she stayed the entire night & bought me room service breakfast in the morning", THAT is a boast)...I don't see me issuing an opinion on something as a boast...Other posters here have strong opinions on various issues, no?...

And I hope you have the intelluctal honesty to realize that BBFS does go on in this lifestyle (hobby), whether you care to admit it or not...

of course i never doubted that it exists (or that it did even many years ago, pre AIMs). and also did not strongly question its right to exist (afterall it's a free country, with conselting adults and all that)

to be 101% honest, IMHO i think it's not for the "average" (or certainly beginner) hobbyist. we do have a few of them on this board afterall

like maybe how the day after you get your driver's license you shouldn't get behind the wheels of a formula 1 race car! LOL

heck for all we know it may soon become the norm rather than the exception!

While i see your point, i just don't think it (sex) can really be compared to things that take advanced education and/or extensive experience (such as what would be needed to be a formula 1 driver) to partake in...