Let me clear this up for everyone, because the way "gman4545" is making this sound is not very accurate.  Gman4545 has been contacting me now since mid April asking to set up an appointment with me.  I was touring Chicago in early May and he asked if he could fly to me for a session, so we tried to set up a session, which he was unable to for whatever reason.  Next gman4545 asked if he could fly to me in Louisville, where I live to set up another appointment that was going to be for late june.

As many of you know, I travel alot and booking something that far in advance, with a client who has already cancelled an appoinment, mad we very weary.  From the beginning, I asked him for a deposit to hold that day, since it was so far in advance. So I asked if he minded putting up a 300 dollar deposit. I also told him that it was 100% refundable if i cancelled him for any reason.  He did not want to send his credit card info to me, so he suggested paypal and even offered to pay extra 20 for paypal fees.  So the deposit was supposed to be 320 total.  If he didn't want to put the deposit up, I just would not confirm the appointment until closer to the date, when I knew my schedule better.  But since it was so far in advance, I wanted to confirm and set in stone the appt, that way I could work around it.  Because if a client wants to confirm that far in ahead and I plan my schedule around a client that cancels, it messes with my whole schedule.

Low and behold my gut feeling, which is usually dead on with clients, emails me this below, which i will quote;

May 17th
"Hey Im afraid I have to buy a new air conditor (conditioner) for my house. I won't be able to see you or anyone else for a while. i knew they were expensive, but wow......."

And I come back here today to see his post about picking Miko, which i love Miko just to add.  She is smoking hot!!!  Love ya girl!!

So to wrap this up, I don't require a deposit to see me, never have. It's the fact that he cancelled before in Chicago and his nature of emails made me reluctant. But Jesus, we are not in high school.  If you want to see another provider, don't bother sending me childish excuses and wasting my time with a 100 emails.