i'm going to have to retire from the hobby, after being with a PSE, i have not been able to get satisfaction from the "normal world".  all experiences from my everyday life are being compared to the PSE, and it just doesn't compare as far as the experience and the looks of the companion

you have been spoiled. Think of it like driving a high-end car. you don't stop driving -you JUST drive high end cars. Just keep seeing your porn star experience and find others who offer that same kind of service. You don't need a pornstar to get a pse.

Some of my best experiences have been with non-pornstars.  Most of the higher-end ladies are  there because they give a PSE or very close to it, anyway.

I like porn stars as much as anyone (btw, I'm a Davia Ardell fan now after seeing her in a recent New Sensations movie that was very hot) but the single best experience I've had w/a provider was not a porn star...

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Are you talking about non paid civi experience's not being able to live up to par? That's a major downfall to this stuff. One minute you're with a total knockout (paid), a woman you'd more than likely never meet in the real world, let alone hook up with, having your world rocked. The next your playing the regular bullshit dating/mating  game's with a woman (civi)that you can manage to make a connection with, hopefully, and nothing is a definite. Suck's doesn't it.

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Try Peurto Rican or Brazillian women for dating.  They will probably will not permit videotaping but they are very passionate, do all PSEs do, and you might get BBFS if you are a serious boyfriend. But most will probably not permit facials like some PSEs do (If they do, do not marry them).

Oh please. Just because I eat Kobe strip steak, doesn't mean, I still don't love hamburgers.
Besides that, I've been with plenty of 'civies', who've rocked my world as good as anybody.

Maybe you're just a natural ladies man, not all of the guy's here are. Personally I've never been with a civi yet that could match up to some of the provider's I've seen, look's or performance wise. In fact a few of them were freakin' fantasy women, like the review category, "once in a lifetime". To be with a woman like that and then go back to the reality of everyday life can pretty much suck ass, at least for some of us.

Believe it or not, my best experience with a provider was NOT with a pornstar.  A hobbyist friend of mine emailed me and recommended a girl named Ali, (www.aliofla.com)  I told him I only saw pornstars, but he kept emailing me and cajoling me to see this exceptional lady.  I finally relented and arranged to spend an evening with her.  Thank you Jesus, I'm glad I did... and if she'd have an old fart like me, I'd marry her in a heartbeat!!!!

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I may be wrong but what I get from this guy's post is his experience with PSE has not spoiled him with regards to seeing other providers.  Rather he states it has effected his 'normal' or what most here call 'civilian' relationships.  Telling him to keep seeing PSE's or high end providers is not going to help his problem.

After re-reading, you are right.  The only difference is that when you find someone you have feelings for (I have had my feelings surgically removed)it will be better than a PSE, a whole different experience.  Although most of us can't get the type of girl (physically) that we are used to, finding your soul mate takes it to a higher level (so I'm told).  I had this with ex Mrs. Soflaguy (a.k.a. plaintiff).