Provide some clarity on who it is. You can do that without being mean spirited or harsh. Tell the truth. That is one reason this board exists. I have seen a few porn stars and have been actually very pleased. Most are not with what they charge though. It is just living out the fantasy.
I finally met my first porn star... a legend from the last 10 years. Always wanted to see her. I was in LA and took the plunge. Very expensive for 2 hours, but went directly through her so cheaper than otherwise would have been. I would not write a review as she was so nice that I wouldn't do anything to hurt her rep (but is that fair to the other hobbiests?).
I had a phenomenal time talking to her... coolest girl I ever met. But...
She has physically let herself go quite a bit, and did not perform nearly the way she did/does in her movies in terms of specific acts. I was actually a little turned off by her appearance- I would never see a 'regular' provider who was, how do we say, out-of-shape (and I don't mean just not a waif).
Regardless, I guess I paid for meeting the legend and loved the conversation, but probably would have been happier with just chatting with her over dinner for 2 hours than going to the bedroom. Ruined the illusion/fantasy of the last 10 years watching her videos.
Would I see a porn star again, probably not. Disappointing. But live and learn.
Any other similar experiences?
Hmmmm just curious who you are talking about?
I think its ok to say who it is or hint at who it is at least,
as long as you felt she delivered for what you paid for, you wont be hurting her reviews,
and its just your opinion, somebody else might think she is still got it and delivers as she should
Provide some clarity on who it is. You can do that without being mean spirited or harsh. Tell the truth. That is one reason this board exists. I have seen a few porn stars and have been actually very pleased. Most are not with what they charge though. It is just living out the fantasy.
have met with several PS over the years and most met ALL my expectations. realizing that the woman on the screen is not always what you get, I did have one meeting that did not go as well. I like really big tits, so I have had the occasion to meet with the likes of Minka, Kayla Kleevage ...etc. one particular date was in Vega with big tit PS. she had changed the way she looked by losing a lot of weight and building too much muscle. she had also gone back to her original dark short hair. so instead of the soft curvy voluptuos blonde , I got the hard body low fat version with the big bolt ons. her bj skills were limited and she did not like to have her tits fucked. ended up doing cowgirl, mish and doggie before busting one her ass. one pop and out the door. definitely not worth the $$$
I've been seeing porn stars off and on since the mid-80s. I've had some really great times with some of them, and some really bad times with some of them. You cannot predict how chemistry will go until you are actually alone in the room with them. Most of them are not, in person, anything at all like their on-screen personas. To expect them to be with you the way they are with the guy on screen would be, in my opinion, an unrealistic expectation. On screen, they are acting. They are also being directed and told what to say, what to do, etc. Off screen, alone with you, they have no such direction (unless you direct) and many of them are just not very creative or imaginative. In my case, I like them not to behave like they do on screen because that way, I feel I'm getting more of a GFE.
Some of the bad experiences I've had:
- The major-name porn star of the 80s. I watched all of her films and tried for years to connect with her. When I finally did, it was a major let-down. She had gone through a whole major change in life-style and wouldn't kiss, do bbbj, or anything GFE-like. During our "session" she accused me of trying to take off the condom to enter her bareback. Didn't happen - I was having such a bad time I was stroking myself to try and get hard. She was a biyatch about the whole thing and really blew the major fantasies I'd had about her all those years.
- The porn star I met who, after 5 minutes announced that she wasn't feeling well and called the date off.
- The porn star that I invited for an overnight who spent almost the entire time we were together texting on her phone to friends.
- The porn star I invited for a short vacation in Hawaii and who apparently forgot to take her medication. She insisted we were being followed at dinner and around town by someone she was on the plane with. She was constantly looking over her shoulder and claimed there was someone there; I couldn't see anybody. Eventually, she just left me (without a word) and went to the police to complain about being followed. Try explaining to a police officer several thousand miles away from home how you know the woman and what the two of you were doing in Hawaii together, not knowing what she had already told them... On the plus side, I did get to meet the real Hawaii Five-O. Ok, maybe that's not a big plus. ![]()
Yes, strange things have happened in 30 years of mongering. But the regrets are a small fraction of the total and I've met some really wonderful women from the porn industry. Several of them in the last few years thanks Adonia at TLC.
If you have been around enough, the flake factor is bound to kick in.
The A-list Pornstar who made her first flight for an overnight and then missed the connecting flight in Cleveland (of all places) because she got "tired" and fell asleep at the airport. We had a redo a while later and I should have learned my lesson the first time around.
The Penthouse Pet who flaked twice and NCNS'd, once when I had flown to NYC to see her.
The fitness girl who flaked and NS'd (again in NYC) because she sent me a text that was meant for her BF and I called her out on it. I told her that I didn't care, come anyway and she was too embarrassed and flaked. I never should have said anything when I got the text.
Playmates tend to be the worst schedule wise, because there are guys lined up to spend money on them and they blow you off in a heart beat. They don't always realize that you have spent a lot of money just to arrange the date. That having been said, there was one who flew in for an overnight and she was amazing. She stayed five days and we had a blast the whole time. When travel is involved, YMMV big time.
Some of the bad experiences I've had:
- The major-name porn star of the 80s. I watched all of her films and tried for years to connect with her. When I finally did, it was a major let-down. She had gone through a whole major change in life-style and wouldn't kiss, do bbbj, or anything GFE-like. During our "session" she accused me of trying to take off the condom to enter her bareback. Didn't happen - I was having such a bad time I was stroking myself to try and get hard. She was a biyatch about the whole thing and really blew the major fantasies I'd had about her all those years.
- The porn star I met who, after 5 minutes announced that she wasn't feeling well and called the date off.
- The porn star that I invited for an overnight who spent almost the entire time we were together texting on her phone to friends.
- The porn star I invited for a short vacation in Hawaii and who apparently forgot to take her medication. She insisted we were being followed at dinner and around town by someone she was on the plane with. She was constantly looking over her shoulder and claimed there was someone there; I couldn't see anybody. Eventually, she just left me (without a word) and went to the police to complain about being followed. Try explaining to a police officer several thousand miles away from home how you know the woman and what the two of you were doing in Hawaii together, not knowing what she had already told them... On the plus side, I did get to meet the real Hawaii Five-O. Ok, maybe that's not a big plus.
Yes, strange things have happened in 30 years of mongering. But the regrets are a small fraction of the total and I've met some really wonderful women from the porn industry. Several of them in the last few years thanks Adonia at TLC.
A couple...The one i fell asleep at the wheel so to speak as i didn't expect her at all to pull the talk for 50 minutes routine, 10 minutes of "playtime" then poof, out the door..Especially since she was a recommendation from one of my regulars, she had no problem w/my requirement either, naturally, or we would never meet..But i learned, and won't make that mistake again....
Leave for LA in a few days and should see 3-4 new stars in addition to some familar friends.....
Please see these ladies so I can dream and live through your experiences if you post reviews.
1- Lily Carter
2- Madelyn Monroe
3- Zoey Kush
Thank you
I can name one. Kelly Devine. Talked just about the entire time. My fault for letting her get away with it. Huge letdown.
Perhaps I am lucky, and PSs are only a rare indulegence for me as I am not much of a consumer of porn, but each of my experiences has been terrific, and each lady was delightful in person, accomodating and fun. Indeed, my first experience was with a well known star of the 1990s who showed me a great time, and when our time was over joined me for drinks and chatting for several hours afterwards. Since then, each lady has been a treat, and recently I had the pleasure of spending several hours with a current star who I have been dying to meet for over a year, and was thrilled to find she was taking private appointments. Despite my own jet lag and fatigue that day, the afternoon was extremely well spent.
Gianna Michaels. Nice girl. Not as cute in person, saggy boobs, everything covered
Did you know that about Gianna Michaels before your session? Some PSE's really have some attitude's [a couple I have met]. Guess it comes from guys constantly hitting on them and telling them the are so beautiful non-stop, day after day. It's sorta like superstar athletes who are constantly never told no! Is Gianna still escorting or even making XXX scenes still!
Read my post on her...major flake and head case who bailed out a trip to see me. She notified me when her plane was to take off and later denied it was ever her that accepted the trip. CRAZY !
I have no regrets from the ones I have slept with. But, Back in the '90s I met Erica Boyer in a strip club. She had me put my $1 stage tip in my mouth then pulled her g string aside for me to tip. I decided to go for it and gave her a lick and she let me go down on her for awhile before pulling my face up and saying "not here." And then I went home like a fag.
