Guys,
I need some other perspectives here. Have the opportunity to see two providers. Both are known for their oral skills. One goes the whole 9 yards in terms of BBBJTCWS. The other one does not.

Of course I have the hots more for the one that does not.  Here is my question. How much of a difference does it really make in terms of feeling or the level of the orgasm if the provider does or does not let you cum in their mouth? Is the experience really diminished that much or is more  of a psychological gratification.

I wonder if I am putting too much of a premium in wanting this service, and thus losing out on many providers who are wonderful but will not do this???