There's a provider that I had previously seen who has been retired for quite some time.  I always wondered what happened to her as she literally disappeared without a trace.  One moment she said to "call her" and the next moment, disconnected phone....

Recently, I happened across this star's phone number via a public site on the net.  Two things.  Should I call to see how she's doing?  Should I ask her if she'll meet me, even though she's no longer providing publicly?  Thoughts?

i wouldn't call, reason being is that if she disappeared it basically means she probably retired from the hobby.  If  you had her email i would send maybe an email but if you are calling her home there may be boyfriends, kids etc involved.

To me, it really depends on where you found the number.  If it was on her own website and listed on a "contact" page or something like that, then sure, go ahead and call.  If it was on some discussion site like this one, or some other public site like whitepages.com or something like that, then I wouldn't call her.

You might try doing a search on google and seeing if she has an "official" site, or a fan club mailing address listed somewhere.  Writing her a nice letter through her fan club or official website shouldn't be a problem.

What sort of "public site" are you talking about? If she has a web site with contact info then go ahead and contact her. If you found her number by doing any sort of search for it using, let's just say, her real name then no, you should not be contacting her.

When escorts disconnect their contact phone it means they no longer wish to be contacted. Let it go.

When girl retire from the biz, that pretty much means they are moving on and really want nothing else to do with it when it comes to performing or seeing clients.  She has probably retired because she has had kids or gotten married.  Those are the big reasons which we retire.  Take it from a pornstar.  I would def not contact her.

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Devon Lee