Current events are having an effect. A LOT of providers and agencies are getting a LOT more selective and a LOT more careful. Some are really ducking down and going "private" with their web-sites and/or are no longer publicly advertising.

You need a referral just to log on.

I've always been willing to do what I can for guys that I KNOW.And others have been gracious enough to do the same for me; both hobbyists and providers ( Thank You Renata, Brigitte, Stevie etc.)
So if you want access to some of the enjoyment I and others have experienced, get to a M & G or PP or see a well reviewed provider whose word carries a little weight.