Question: I want to arrange my first time with a PS, but the select few I would choose require references from other providers before agreeing to meet me. How to get past this catch-22? Start with someone I'm not interested in to build a resume? Thanks in advance for your thoughts.
Some gals insist in references. I would ask if they are ok with going through a service like roomservice2000 or preferred411. If they aren't ask if they would agree to see you after verifying your work info. PS's are terrified of LE as much as any other gal and are targeted more frequently do to being more in the public eye. We are also a target for guys that are crazy(not saying more so than a non-PS) and think they know us very well because they read an interview we did, saw us have sex, or just saw us naked.
As it was stated in an earlier post, its a good idea to start with non-PS's and up to a PS but don't see someone you aren't interested in seeing, that's rather silly and an insult to the gal that you spend time with. There are alot of fantastic providers that aren't PS so take a look and see someone that that absolutley want to see. BTW, there are alot of providers that even look like a PS even though they are not.
You can always do your research on the PS's that don't require references only.
That's my advice:work your way up, find gal's that don't require a reference and will screen you another way.
Getting started in this hobby with PSE's is not all that easy. There are guys on this board who continually tell you to NEVER USE AN AGENCY. I don't subscribe to that theory, especially for newbies. While many PSE's will see guys directly (and some just will not), they will usually want to do some kind of screening, which will typically include references from other PSE's. So, you find yourself in this catch-22 situation.
My suggestion would be to do one of the following:
1. Book your first few MUST-SEE PSE's through an agency. You'll pay a bit more than if you were able to go direct, but you're not going to be able to see them anyway at this point. When you see them, do your best to befriend them and get direct contact info. If you feel the chemistry is right, you can even ask them if they would be a future reference for you.
2. Second choice is to see a PSE who doesn't require references from other PSE's. There are a few out there, but they will typically require other screening info. They may not be your top choice to see, but I can guarantee that there are MANY who will blow you away!
In any case, once you see your first few PSE's, make sure that you review them here on TER. Some PSE's will even use your TER handle as a possible screening process. When you contact them (I find email to be best for first contact), tell them a little about yourself, how many ladies you've seen, which PSE's, refer them to your reviews on TER (with your username). Once you build up a few reviews here PLUS a few PSE's willing to vouch for you, you'll be on your way
Even to this day, with all my connections and credentials, I still use agencies to get to those MUST-SEE girls that I am not able to get through to directly.
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