ok so i need some opinions..this past week after thinking boutnit and talking to a very popular and extremely pretty girl, i decided to take the plunge..there is no need to say who it is, cause i am not trying to be negative. the girl was very nice and sincere yet her rate was a little high for me at this time..i wanted to see her bad so i agreed to do a ahlf hour..just the thought of being with her was good enough to try..so we met, and im not the one who just walks thru the door and throws off my clothes..especially with someone i dont knw..so i tried talking, and all i can say is every few minutes she reminded me of how much time was left..i felt pressured which was sad cause i realy wanted to be with this girl..so we started in to it..and as we were in the middle of it, a timer went off and i was told..u have 2 minutes.,wow..had to finish quick and then leave

look all i can say is i dont regret seeing or being with this girl..its just tht i thnk a half hour is way to quick to be with anyone especially if you dont know her..there was no time to produce any chemistry. and i really could not be myself..so if you had to choose to be with a gri u wrre dying to eet, yet she offerd you couldnt afford her unless u paid for a half hour.,would u still go for it?..just curious cause i just wish i didnt feel as rushed as i did..and trust me with this girl..you would wanna spend alot of time with her!

I think you both are wrong. Obviously, it is wrong for her to keep reminding you of the time. And to have a timer go off, well, that is ridiculous. However, if you are paying for a half hour you should not expect much chat to build chemistry. If you want that kind of thing, that's what the hour rate is for. Put yourself in the girl's shoes. You said she is beautiful and probably smart and sweet, so the product she is offering is extremely precious. You can't be cheap if you expect to get everything - that chat, the payoff, the total experience. My feeling is that the half hour is rate is designed for people who want to get right to it. And if you want more than that, you got to pay up. It's her time, her body.

Here's my take on 1/2 hr. sessions......
1.Remember... this is business for the lady
2.You also need to know what you are there for... Yeah it's good to get to know someone first, but you're paying big $$.Get to it!!
That's also why she's there. Chances are (unless you repeat with this same lady) you won't be in volved in any type of relationship other than  business.
Just my take on it.
              JT

so you can really enjoy you're time with her.

Sorry to hear what happened Tyler.  But to answer you're question - I used to do half hours when I would see local GFE girls that I was not interested in building any chemistry with.  But with these PS girls, whom many of which I have never met before, it's really hard and almost impossible to build chemistry in just 30 mins and get your play time in there.....they're just to damn hot!!!

On the contrary, I rarely ever book 2 hour appts.  I usually book one hour appts., or overnights (if i can afford it and get a good rate).  Reason being, its rare that I can go more than 1 or 2 rounds in one hour (with the exception of Bridgette Monroe who has an ability to get me rock hard right away)    

So the 2 hr appt for me ends up being a complete waste - there is nothing that I will do in 2 hours that I can not do in one hour.  I could do the 3 hr, but for that rate, then you might as well try and do a really long and extended session or overnight and really build up the chemistry and play time.

Anyways, point being, that yes, the 1/2 hr appts are really tough and it puts pressure on BOTH YOU AND THE GIRL.  Its best to give yourselves the time necessary to unwind and relax.

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I've done 1/2 hour sessions, mostly in similar situations when the price is very high, and you're just not sure you should be spending that much money.  Think of it as a test drive.

You have to go into them with some time management plan.  If you're not going to walk in the door ready to go with a script in hand it's not going to work.  On the other hand if you want to find out if the full hour is going to be worth it a half hour can be a budget conscious way to start.

Regardless, I would not repeat with anyone who sets a timer on me and tells me I have 2 minutes when it goes off.

good way to think about it.

now, if i could just test drive some of you're vehicles.....

let me give my side as a provider in this business about 1/2hr and hour appts.  

Guys are always asking if the sessions are unrushed??  This is something I can not understand when a guy books a half hour.  This is a business for us, so when you pay for 30 minutes, thats what you get.

I love to get to know the guys, but it isn't my fault when a guy sits around on a half hour session and shoots the shit for 15 minutes.  I generally like to remind a chatty guy, that "hey babe, we should get to it ".  If you want to chat or get to know me, email me, book a longer appt, or speak thru text or phone.

Do hobbyist really expect to book 30 minutes and you get 45 minutes on the session?  I mean, if you want more time, then book more time

Both provider and hobbyist know why they are there, there's no reason to beat around the bush on a 30 minute appt.  30 min appts are made so you can get in and get out, because you want a discounted rate, or 30 minutes is all you need.  30 minute appts are not set for "Getting to know the PS".

this is my .02 and I think most all girls would agree with me on this

I agree to a point. But I dont watch the clock and if it goes a little over then it goes a little over. I have a had a couple go over and I never got upset or asked for extra money. Hell I have had hour sessions accidently go over. Sometimes it happens.
I never want to make the guy feel pressured.   My experience with most 1/2 hour guys is they are usually on their  lunch breaks and they come there knowing that they have time for me and time to hit a deli on the way back to work. haha! But if it goes over a little bit then it goes over. I always give myself enough time in between sessions just incase of that and to get ready for my next one.




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I have never booked less than 2 hour sessions, and most of mine are the whole evening, or overnight. I'm lucky to be able to afford longer sessions, and also lucky enough to have some of the Energizer Bunny DNA!

But I can certainly see the point of booking a half hour if that's what you can afford, and the girl is someone you just have to see (like, oh, I dunnoh, say, MEMPHIS) (although was lucky enough to see Memphis for a longer session!).

But half an hour is a REALLY short period of time. To paraphrase what Memphis said, the only bush you should be beating around is HERS!  

AND WITH A BODY LIKE THAT...

I don't blame you Memphis....why even get to know you??
chop, chop, get to it buddy!!!  

no offense Tyler and Memphis....you guys are both great, and I'm just messing around here...LOL

I totally agree with that babe.  I always schedule enough time in between, atleast 30 minutes.  Most of my 30 minute appts usually turn into 35 or 40 because of showers, talking, etc.

But my point is, if a guy is wanting to get to know a girl on a personal level, 30 minute appts aren't the way to go  

Back in the (yes, I refer to them alot in my analogies) Philadelphia/NYC incall days in the 1990's, I did a few 1/2 hr. appts....Back in those days, in that setting, rates were low, & it was a totally different expectation level than it is now (for me)....Now, I would never book a 1/2 hr. appt....1/2 hour is way too rushed...

It's mostly 1 hour appts. nowadays, & when I'm in Los Angeles, I'm seeing 3-5 people (UTR's & repeats) ...

On the flip side (as far as appointment time goes), my all time favorite provider was a non-porn star who only booked 4+ hr. appts. (Amy T from LA), that was the longest I ever booked....

Hey Tyler....

Sounds like you learned your lesson the hard way, but knew that going in.  You say in the second paragraph that you know a half hour is too short a time to get to know somebody, yet that's what you tried to do.

You should have had your cock out as you entered the door, IMHO.

I do agree the way she treated you isn't exactly the best way to build a book of business.  I mean, if somebody watches a clock like that and gives me a 2-minute warning, I'll be fair about the review, but it won't be a good one and I would never go back.

If you're truly the type who wants to get to know a girl but don't have the budget for more than a half hour, you should stick to the civvie world.

My $0.02.  Good luck!

PS:  You should post a review of her and include the juicy details.  Be fair, but people should know WHO is timing the session with a - ahem - shot clock.

I've been in clubs where I booked a room for half an hour with a girl and it zips by so fast it's unreal (and half the money goes for the room). I'd rather spend all or half that amount for a full hour, relax and not have someone knocking on my door telling me "five minutes" or that my time is up. I can set the alarm on my cell to do that.

The whole concept of a half hour date is just ridiculous to me unless you ARE the type to walk through the door and throw off your clothes.  I know a few guys who are basically interested in blow jobs only, so for them a half hour is the right way to go, but for most guys you'd be better off finding a hot, top rated non-PSE provider and book her for the full hour.

And if you're the type that's looking to establish a connection with the girl, I don't even think one hour is enough.

I personally prefer a minimum of 2 hours with 3 being ideal... after 3 hours I'm pretty much done in, and 3 hours allows plenty of chat time before, during, in-between and after play time.

As for your specific experience; if the girl was reminding you how much time you had left while you were talking, I'd say that's to her credit... she didn't want you to be disappointed with the amount of play time you got.  If she was reminding you while you were playing, well, that's kinda rude.

As for the 2-minute timer, I can actually understand that on the girl's part.  During an hour visit, if she doesn't have an appointment immediately following you, a lot of girls are a bit relaxed regarding going over the alloted time.  And when a PSE is charging a four figure rate, if she's smart she shouldn't watch the clock.  But if she constantly went 10 or 15 minutes over the half-hour, it would devalue her hourly rate so that everyone would start booking her for half-hour meetings for $400 or $500 less... Clearly 45 minutes for $700 is the better deal than 60 minutes for $1200.  So in the long run, even a PSE who's a non-clockwatcher during her hourly dates needs to become one for half-hour ones.

That's why I'd NEVER consider a half-hour date unless Briana Banks was having a fire-sale and charging $500 for it.

-- Modified on 12/6/2008 11:22:52 AM

The only time I'd consider a half-hour appointment is if I couldn't find direct contact for a girl and she was booking through an agency.

I'd consider the half-hour an investment for the future, and I'd probably burn 15 or 20 minutes talking and trying to establish a rapport.

At the end I'd let her know I was interested in booking her directly for a multiple-hour date her next time through town.  

Just a thought...

You can't get to know someone in 30 minutes.  Even 60 minutes is pretty short.  There was a time when I almost always asked for 90 minutes for a first meeting.  Then I could figure out if the next one should be 1 hour or 2 hours.

In this particular case the 60 minute price was outside the budget for the guy.  I can understand guys having that issue with some of the higher priced girls.  With a 30 minute rate he can spend some time with his fantasy girl and maybe figure out if he should save up his money for more time next visit.

But you have to go into those meetings with a plan for 30 minutes.  Taking advantage by trying to stretch it it 45 minutes is not fair to the girl.

Rob

i pretty much keep my thoughts to myself on much posted here, but did this provider actually set a timer? if so, my take is, don't ever call this provider again , one hour, two hours or for any amount of time setting a timer to keep track of time is the ultimate impersonal behavior. sheesh, talk about a mechanical session. wish i knew who this was so i can cross them off  my list of possibles.

Sounds like a CL girl.

I totally agree and they do need to book more time. That is why I usually dont do 1/2 hours unless they are lunch breaks and I know the guy and know he is going to be just a half hour.  
1/2 hours are very hard to do and I never understood why a guy would only want to do a half hour. Unless he is a quick one cup guy.  

-- Modified on 12/6/2008 6:09:31 PM

Of course, the real question is whether she goes into a 'prevent defense' at the two-minute warning.

Although from my limited experience, maybe it would be better if she just played her regular defense. Those specially-designed defenses never seem to work well.

-- Modified on 12/6/2008 7:35:07 PM

First of all I can't imagine someone staying only 30 minutes with you Bridgette.  How could they pull themselves away after such a short time?

Then of course there's the whole problem of trying to go back to work after seeing you.  How do guys do that, anyway?  Don't they have to go through intensive care first.  Haha!

Given that we are planning THREE DAYS together in Vegas, here's how I've planned for my flight home:

http://www.airambulance.net/

I can't wait!

Rob

I feel the same exact way with Bridgette.

I don't believe in rushing and like it was mentioned, if it goes over a bit, so what.

The point is "Lets Have Fun", regardless...

I actually quit taking half hr appts because of all the things listed here. I have entertained the thought of trying to start up half hr appts again so when the request would come, I would explain beforehand the situation. They never seem to email back...lol I want them to have as much fun as I am and I feel that 30 min is kinda hard to achieve that goal.If the guy goes in knowing that then lets have some fun but most dont. I understand where everyone is coming from in this senario. :0)