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I highly doubt that the boyfriend will contact you. In addition to your number being on her phone, I'm sure there are other numbers as well. He's definitely more pissed off at her than you.

A similar incident happened to me several years ago. The psychotic boyfriend of JR Carrington called me up and threatened to do bodily harm because I had seen JR a few weeks earlier. I came right back at him, essentially telling him to "fuck off". He never contacted me again.

Don't lose too much sleep over this. It's unlikely he will contact you. If he does, ignore him and he will probably go away.

exactly...

this guy would be stupid if he went to LE and have your # tracked.  It would be like he's turning in his G/F

After all you are using a throw-away phone...right? Because who in their right mind uses their real phone for the hobby? Pick up a new Trac-fone and be done with it. If you are using a real phone, kill the number; get a new number and finally buy a Trac-fone for the hobby. And why is her bf pissed, you are the guy paying the rent, she uses the money earned from you to buy him things and he still gets to bareback her. What is his big F’ing problem?

He can find out your info from your cell number. If you are paying a normal monthly plan then he could acquire the contract’s information such as full name and address where the bill is sent to. If you are having the bill sent electronically then whatever information was used to do a credit check.

Oh and was that JR’s BF or her husband, I would never understand which role he was. Were both in the military or just one of them.

1. I take it throw a way phone means one of those pay as you go phones, which i think most companies offer...You put $$$ in it, and just refill as you use it...

2. You don't have to be boyfriend/girlfriend husband/wife to bareback...

I just finished seeing a UTR 2 days ago.  we had a good time and it was setup directly with her through phone text and phone call.  However, she just contacted me today and told me her B/F has gotten angry and stole her phone and is going through her call history to find people she has seen.  Unfortunately, since i've been texting and calling her directly, my phone number is in her phone; which is now in the hands of her psychotic B/F.  How should I be handling this?  the UTR has called me through another phone and has told me to ignore any calls from her previous phone which is in the hands of her B/F.  I am scared to death since he now has my number.  Would he be able to find me based on this?  Please help as to what I should do.  By the way, in the reviews, i believe there should be a column stating whether or not the provider has a B/F.

...you should be able to call your cell company and have them block all calls from a certain number....you should also be able to block texts

this won't stop someone from using another phone but it's possible this may solve your problem

good luck!

heinous

he has already contacted me ( i did not answer but he left a voicemail threatening me and saying he will "hunt me down").
is is possible for him to find me based on my number?  I can't exactly call the police.

I'm probably one of the few the UTR has on her contacts list because she is not high volume.

It is funny that you mention that you had this experience with JR, because i was considering seeing her, but i guess i won't anymore.

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Like maybe a message suggesting a little $$$ might make this all go away !

i would suggest getting a separate anonymous prepaid phone, just for hobby use, register it to a fake name and address.
don't worry about the bf, usually these are guys, who are making money from their "gfs" anyway.

Several things to consider:

1.  This could be a set up or con they're playing on you.....hoping you'll offer some money and then he goes away.
2.  If he threatened you....it's a Federal offense....tell him you'll turn him in for making terroristic threats.
3.  If he keeps calling....tell him he shouldn't date a hooker... and then he wouldn't have these problems.
4.  Offer to meet him in a public place...pack a gun...and if he steps off....bust a cap in the mother fucker.  You have the voice mail with him threatening you....you were terrified...he was stalking you...it was self-defense.
5.  Call the UTR and tell her to give you his contact info and where he's out...or you'll out her ass to the world.  Hey...no mercy...she's supposed to be a professional.  You don't need this kind of shit...if you wanted this you would've gotten involved with a civilian.

P.S.  All my advice is bullshit...though...because it is easy to give advice when you're not involved.  I will tell you...when something similar happened to me....I met with the guy and I told him...."Here I am dude...yes I fucked your hooker girlfriend....what of it!"  

The guy just looked at me....then I backed away...got in my car and never heard from him again.  Very weired...sometimes these guys do it...for the effect it will have on the girl.  If you call them on it..it goes a totally different way.  Suitcase Pimps are lovers (talkers) not fighters.

I doubt the situation will go much further or that the guy will go through the hassle of tracking down all of the people on her phone. Don't worry abgout it.

But I had to comment on one thing bienduro said. He suggested that you arrange to meet the guy and then if he tries anything you "bust a cap in the motherfucker" ( or smething like that) because you could then claim self-defense. That particular piece of advice is absolutely wrong. You can't claim that you were in fear for your safety if you arrange to meet him. It could be said that you went there looking for an incident out of some misguided sense of machismo. Forgetting about the legal consequences, why put yourself in a situation where violence could occur when you can so easily avoid it. Doesn't sound like you would do what bienduro suggests anyway, but if there was any chance or if anyone else is processing that particular piece of advice for future reference, please trust me he's dead wrong on that point. (Bienduro, no disrespect intended at all.)

No offense taken.....your advice is probably the saner approach....and you're absolutely right!

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I am guessing this was cellphone, if so the chances of him getting you location with some effort are slim. Most cell phone companies do not give out customer information, and said information doesnt come up if you try to use a reverse phone directory.

For all this trouble you should get a free or discounted visit with the provider

Sounds like to me, you will have to marry her...congratulations

4 years ago, I saw a very high end UTR monthly for about a year. On our last weekend together, she tells me she is married. I say no problem, so am I. She then tells me she is having feelings for me and has told her husband she is leaving and hopes we can see were it goes with us. Anyway, even though i tell her there is no chance that this is happening, her husband flips out and call me. I did not care i was seeing her but flipped out he was losing his meal ticket. He called me and threatened to tell people and my family what was happening. This went on for about two weeks. I was scared to death and ended up hiring a PI to fly to LA, find this guy and threaten him that if he did not back off things were gonna get ugly. It was a little more intense than that but it worked. I never heard from him again.

and that you will press charges or get a restraining order. He doesn't sound like the brightest bulb in the tanning bed, so if he tells you that he'll tell the cops you paid for sex, call him on his bluff. extortion and aggravated assault are far worse felonies than hobbying.

if he does soemthing stupid LE knows you're acting in self defense. I had it happen to me, I was picking her up just outside of his place. He called and threatened me in text messages. I did go to police and filed report but left out the incriminating info. I just said it was over his GF. He actually came to my door and again outside a nearby store. She asked me not to get into a fight with him as he was her agent and she needed him for work.  I mean the guy let her escort and do porn so what if I paid her; I think his real problem was he didn't get his cut.
BTW She's no longer with him or in the business and I'm still one of her best friends.

You should be using a hobby phone, so let him call away. Shouldn't bother you at all, and if it does just get a new disposable phone.