Hey Guys,

I was wondering how you approached a pornstar you wanted to meet, but wasn't sure if they provided or not. I have (2) different ladies in mind, and neither is part of any agency that I am aware of. They may be super UTR, or just don't provide, but what's the best way to find out? Should I contact the lady on their personal Instagram, Twitter (I guess X now), or is there a better way to find out?

I have the cash to splurge and go all-out for the right lady, but want to do it in a discreet way so that it doesn't come off the wrong way.

Any suggestions?

You could ask here and see if anyone knows. Who do you have in mind?

The (2) ladies I am most interested in meeting are:

- Madison Ivy
- Adria Rae

Anissa Kate and Angela White would also be on the list, but I would imagine they both do not meet their fans.

Even assuming you send a direct message rather than leaving a comment on one of her posts, apps like IG, FB, X, even SnapChat, OnlyFans and TikTok can and do look at the text of your DM and will flag anything that even faintly smells like P4P chat.  That could get you, and the recipient banned from the app.  

 
If you can find a personal email (i.e.: @gmail, @proton, @hotmail, etc.) rather than an agency email (@agencyname - unless they agency as a Porn Star Escort Agency, of course), then that can work - sometimes. Use indirect words, like fan meet, or meet for drinks/dinner, etc.  

 
What's the best way to ask without risking of getting unwanted attention, try to meet her somewhere where she can be approached one-on-one.  Adult shows can be good for this IF you do it right. If she ever feature dances at a local strip club, that can work as well.  Buy a $100 lap dance with her to get 3-5 minutes of one-on-one time.  

 
Do not ask her "on the show floor" or in the show booth, or on stage, or when she's posing for a pic with you.  If possible, find her at the hotel bar or when walking back to her hotel room. Then say hi, chat a bit and if you get a good vibe, casually ask her if she ever does fan meets.  If she provides, she will know how to answer in the affirmative. If she doesn't, she will just say she does not.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

The only one on your list that I think you have a shot at is Adria Rae. Anissa and Angela are not in the US as far as I know. I do not know if Adria is currently providing but has in the past and every so often has an EROS ad up. I would not suggest approaching her or any porn star on social media.  
I would recommend signing up for one or two of the reputable agencies and book someone from their roster of available girls.

In general, agree with prior answers. Have had some luck with personal emails. Have to be at least somewhat coded: do you ever do in-person meetups with fans. Also, the hotel lobby advice is no lie, worked for me (a completely random thing) and was one of my best nights ever.

I know Angela White and Adria Rae both have provided in the past.  

Ive had the pleasure of eating Ms Raes asshole while her friend bounced on my cock.  

Worth putting the time into researching.