I have never seen an UTR lady/PS, but I have seen many PS with reviews.
My Question: If you decide to see a UTR PS or playmate,  no reviews (UTR). How do you determine if she provides good service or what you are looking for?

You pays your money and you takes your chances....

You can ask her for the TER handle of anyone she has seen from this board as a reference.

Usually you are referred to the UTR by a pornstar you already see. Usually, she will only refer her clients to a legit provider that offers the same level of service as she does.

If you are going for the UTR option then, presumably, the level of service is not your main concern.  

For instance, if Natalie Portman provided UTR (of course she does not, but if in an alternate universe she did), would you take a pass because some other guy reports that she gives only an average CBJ?  The question answers itself.  You WANT Natalie Portman.    

The only reason to choose a UTR is because she is a personal fantasy.  Whatever level of service you get, you get.  But you had the fantasy.

Here is a tip to maximize your mileage with any girl, UTR or otherwise: Bring her a NICELY WRAPPED gift on the front end of the encounter.

It is just that simple.

With that single act of say, a gift card to Wet Seal or Victoria's Secret or whatever, you will have set yourself apart from 95% of the schmucks trying to get in her panties....  

She will forget about the gift 10 minutes into the session, but she will remember it in the crucile first three minutes of your sizing each other up, which sets the whole tone for the hour or two to cum.....

Now I have seen many UTR porn ladies and for the most part have had a great experience..Here are some tips:

1) Watch her videos closely..When I was scouting Janet Mason I must have spent hours watching her videos and in all of them she was really into it..

2) Take an AIM test and email them a copy..I know some well known UTR porn ladies that will ONLY do privates with guys who are AIM tested..If you don't you most likely setting yourself up for failure (covered blowjob, no DATY, etc)..

3) Have some conversations with her before you meet.Like asking questions about her background..This is unlike an escort..Escorts will have sex with anybody as long as they have the money.A lot of UTR porn ladies have to have some sort of chemistry with you.

4) Email them a picture of yourself..

5) Tell them what your expectations are.Remember you are hiring them for a job so tell them and do not hold back.

Danny

My question would be how do you know if its ok to ask and how do you ask. There have been a couple that I wanted to ask when I saw they were coming to DC/Baltimore area but I really didn't want to offend them and so I wasnt sure how to ask.

Ask for anyone who has seen her to PM you info on their experience and/or ask her if she's seen any guys from the board and if so could she provide their names so you can speak to them so you can get an idea what to expect w/o directly asking her.

If you really want to be with the girl though, let's face it even if you don't get any info you're likely to see her still.

For those of us who are not as confident as you, could you explain the process of getting an AIM test?

I mean, I don't think I can go to the family doctor who delivered our kids and ask for this....

"I mean, I don't think I can go to the family doctor who delivered our kids and ask for this".

Well, it's definitely a different hobby (in many respects) for married/attached hobbyists as compared to single hobbyists, such as myself....I kinda alluded to my lifestyle, (he's very easy to talk to as well) & he looked up the ICD-9 diagnostic codes from the extensive lists there are, & there is one for sexually active people..I get tested regularly (which are covered under insurance) thru my primary care physician....

In LA, AIM testing is very simple - walk into the office, fill out some paperwork, get tested...I've been going to AIM well over 3 years now....

And what a provider & a client do in the privacy of their bedroom is their business....No one poster is some sort of standard bearer, providers & clients like different things & have different comfort levels....