I've read in the past various accounts of meeting a PS at a strip cub and setting something up. What I haven't seen (or don't recall reading) was how the subject was broached. Is it adequate to maybe get a lap dance or private show and say something like 'I'm a hobbyist'? Do you need to be more direct? I would think going over the line, wherever it happens to be, would be the point of no return.

I don't have strip clubs in my area, but I am on the road for work a lot and visit them from time to time. Since I have no direct access and feature dancers are not always at every club (in fact it seems clubs with features are in the vast minority) my ability to experiment in this realm is minimal. I guess I'm looking to learn from the experiences of others so that if I'm in the right place at the right time I can seize the opportunity, or at least not royally screw things up. Any advice on how to get the conversation started is appreciated.