http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/18/nyregion/18cnd-paterson.html?_r=1&hp&oref=slogin

I am divorced... but that is no secret.  but what most don't know is that I still see in the Ex-Ms Superdude the very qualities that I fell in love with to begin with: Intelligence, passion and a "zest" for life that is hard to define... I also like her somewhat "random and choatic life force."  It was not those qualities that made me hate being around her... rather other things...

we work well as a team when we have a common goal... and our kids know that when we unite (as we often do when confronted by our kids) we are often of one mind....  

What I like about this everyman is his commoness in confronting the real events of his life.  an honesty that while painful, is still very much real and human....   he is us...  and that is ok.