Had a great time with Skylar! She is petite and had a nice perky set! She was wonnderful all the way. She did kiss, however, she does not do DFK, though I hought it is part of GFE that DesertDivas advertise.

is usually going to be a YMMV type of thing. I've always found Paul and Adam to be very straight forward. Did you ask either of them when you booked? All in all it sounds like you had a great time however.....

ReesertDivas

Would have to agree with azhacker here. Some things may be a YMMV. I was lucky enough to have had the pleasure during my meeting.

DFK is always a YMMV thing. As a former Dental Assistant, I've seen saliva under a microscope, and let me tell you...if you've ever had the pleasure of seeing that, you'd think twice about french kissing too.

But, I do french kiss if certain variables are in place. If your teeth are clean and free of obvious caries, your breath smells clean and fresh, and you are respectful about kissing...I'm all about it. And when I say respectful, I mean you're not grabbing the back of my neck and shoving your tongue as far down my throat as possible.

Kissing is very personal to most women. In fact, to me, kissing is more personal than a BJ. Maybe that sounds crazy, but to most women I know, that is the case. It's a form of initimacy to us and I'm no different. Plus it requires a certain level of physical attraction. Now, if you've had an appointment with me and I haven't kissed you, don't take it personally. I used to not even kiss at all. Couldn't bring myself to with the visual in my mind of the bacteria crawling around in saliva. Plus, if you don't make the move to kiss,  don't either because I assume kissing is a form of initimacy to you as well and you don't want to reach that level. And I'm perfectly happy and satisfied with that.

So, basically guys, if you're getting kisses from your lady of choice, I think that's very fantastic. And if you aren't, just remember that each of us has different reasons and comfort levels but two things are almost always the same: If you have obviously bad (unhealthy) teeth and bad breath, you are likely not going to receive kisses.

Megan

that for me kissing is more personal than a bj. I know, you probably think that's crazy but think about it for awhile . . . and get back to me. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

Thanks for all your responses! I did  not want BJ , and neither a FS. It is my fault that I did not say what I wanted. Almost all the time, I just want intimacy: includes, hugging, cuddling, and intimate kisses, and DFK kisses once in awhile. To me, GFE includes that....


Thanks!

ReFK

To be honest, I am very healty, dentally. Never had a cavity in my life. Mu=y teeth are strong and healthy. I do make sure the my breath is fresh and clean whenever I meet a lady. In fact, I asked the gal: was it my breath? she said: no, I never do that with anyone!

To me GFE adveretising without nice kisses is a BS! Praticularly when you pay so big bucks!

you'll get all of those things with me (if you choose to decide to meet me). Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

and I will make sure you are not dissapointed  

Our service is GFE advertised and we mean it.

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-Adam

I will call you tomorrow...thanks!

I am not terribly experienced with the Hobby, but I have to say I think Desert Divas is as good as you could hope for any agency to be.  I was lucky enough to meet with Brittney last week, and not only were the people on the phone polite, professional, and friendly, (and they got everything taken care of in a prompt manner that made me, as a relative newbie, feel completely comfortable) but she delivered the most complete GFE I could ever have hoped for.  I can't imagine any way in which their service could be improved, and I would recommend them without a moment's hesitation.  I admit, though, that I may have just been uncommonly fortunate in my experience, and perhaps the rest of the girls aren't as incredible as she was.  As I haven't seen any of them, I'm not allowed an opinion.  If you are looking for a complete GFE, I would recommend Brittney from Desert Divas.  I'm sure she won't let you down.

Especially when it is applied to the alphabet soup. You know, we are human beings..we ladies. We have feelings, we have attractions and sometimes not. We're not blow up dolls or objects, and this is why YMMV applies to every single, solitary appointment. Some of us kiss, some of us perform BBBJ, some perform BBBJTCCIM. Some of us, although I can't fathom why, even perform completely uncovered services, and most (I hope most) do not. Some of us don't kiss at all, but in every other way we fall into the category of "GFE."

Honestly, you can't buy a "Girfriend Experience." The only way to experience a girlfriend in my opinion, is to have a girlfriend. Mull that over a moment. We ladies, with our feelings, do our absolutely best, I believe, to provide top notch service to the men who call upon us. We provide a very valuable, soothing service to most souls and many times, we sacrifice a little bit to do so.

So, please keep in mind, Snijder, that you did not book service with a blow up doll. You booked service with a living, breathing, thinking, emotionally present individual and not all the rules that apply to MY service necesarily apply to hers. And always remember, based on the fact that we aren't blow up dolls, your mileage WILL vary.

Respectfully yours,

Megan

I understand what you're saying about the idea that we are employing a living, breathing human being who has a soul and her own individuality.  I think this is why some of us value kissing as much as we do.  It is because it allows us to feel as though there is not only a sexual, but also an emotional connection there, with this real person, with her own identity, her own uniqueness, and that's very exciting.... at least to me.  Of course we realize that there isn't really any serious emotional connection because Providers would probably go insane if they really had feelings for all of their clients.  It's just not practical, and we know that.  
But when a girl is a good enough actress to allow us to feel that way, it enhances, for me at least, the experience in ways no other sexual act possibly could.  Certainly no Provider is obligated to do anything she doesn't wish to do, and to suggest otherwise is the most horrendous form of disrespect.
When we talk about a GFE, I think it's because, for many of us, we don't have the time, energy, or the looks to attract the kind of girl we would like to have as a girlfriend.  This is the reason we pay someone to play the part for us.  
All Providers are filling a need that clients have, and some do it better than others.  Those Providers who make us feel (even if it isn't real) that they are like our girlfriends add a dimension to the service, and I am among those who are very grateful when they do.  They aren't obligated to do so, but I'm very happy when they do.
Respectfully,
Fred

See, I guess maybe that's why I'm so passionate about it. I'm not an actress. If I were, maybe I'd be in Hollywood making millions instead of here making hundreds. I think it's disrespectful to fake anything wtih a client and I assume he will certainly know it's acting. I prefer to be a real person, be present in the moment and enjoy my clients and allow them to genuinely enjoy me.

Just think, Fred....think how enjoyable the experience would be if you were with providers who genuinely enjoyed your company and your presence. Maybe that's what you ought to reach for instead of the alphabet soup. It's just a thought, but I take my job very seriously.

Megan

PS Either way, thanks for your response.

You have a great point, Megan.  I think I assume they're acting because I don't really believe that there is all that much to enjoy about my presence.  This is, of course, nothing more than a personal insecurity, and it may well be that the Providers who made me believe they liked me truly did.  I just won't say that they did because, somehow, that feels a little arrogant to me.  
I feel sure that no Provider would be flat out rude and say, "God, you're really sexually boring," even if that's how she felt.  I don't suspect that I'm the only Hobbyist who is less than entirely secure about his performance, particularly when we all know very well that the Provider with whom we are spending time has had many experiences with many men, at least some of whom must certainly have been better at it than we are.
If the Providers who have made me feel so good are faking it, I don't find it disrespectful because (assuming, for the moment that they are) they are doing this in order to make me feel good.
I think what I respect so much about a good Provider (Brittney comes to mind, but I have no doubt there are counteless others) is that she is willing, for a price, to sacrifice her own feelings in favor of making sure I feel good.  I think this is a very kind and selfless act, and, far from being something of which she should be ashamed, I think it is somehow slightly heroic.  The girl recognizes what I need, and is willing to provide that to me so that I feel happy, satisfied, excited, and, in some cases (and maybe it was genuine, as you make a good case for this) she'll even make me feel as though she likes me.  
Sex is one thing, but that feeling that someone whom you find incredibly attractive likes you as well does things for a man's ego that just can't be accomplished in any other way.  I have great respect for Providers who do this, and I don't feel as though they are being disrespectful to me.  
I respect you for taking your job seriously, and I know that there are many who do.  For whatever the reasons may be, I appreciate those Providers who have made me feel special and liked.  I'm sure I speak for many Hobbyists when I say a heartfelt and sincere "thank you" to those of you who have managed, whether you were acting or not, to make us feel so very good.  The service you ladies provide to us is an important and valuable one, and I, for one, am grateful.
Fred

This is a great thread!!!!!!!!

I love seeing the provider's  and hobbyist's perspective, when it's done in a tasteful, respectful, manner! Job well done on this thread!!!!

This is so much better than people bantering back and forth, insulting one another.

Hugs,
Ciara

I'm fairly new to all of this, so I have very little with which to make comparisons.  However, one of the things by which I've been impressed in my experiences with both TER and the Providers with whom I have had the privilege of spending time is the level of respect and intelligence involved.  The TER Community seems to me to be made up of some excellent people on both sides of the Hobby, and I feel fortunate indeed to be a member of such a group.  
Compare what you read in any of the threads on TER with, for example, the horrnedous garbage on Craig's List.  Here people can even spell!  
I certainly mean no offense to any Provider who advertises there, but I'm sure you must have read the awful things that people say there, and you've probably observed that they can't put together a complete sentence to save their souls.  This really is a great group, and I'm enjoying being a small part of it.
And again, thank you to those Providers with whom I have gotten to spend some time and to the excellent reviewers who steered me in the right direction.
Fred

ReesertDivas

Im with you i would knock a point or two off myself.
You paid the cash you can review as you wish as long as its truthful.
since ymmv on any call its all we can do to help each other out.