I treat this "occupation" as a customer service job, and nothing pleases me more than knowing at least the time with me your able to forget about all the daily stress life brings you. With that, I couldn't be any more happier.  

but seeing a review by someone who says they "won't" recommend u even tho you and them were laughing and enjoying conversation and each others company and while leaving stating you'll be back. It sucks... Hurts... I guess my big heart just makes me more emtional. Am I the only one that feels this way?

i always make sure no false expectations are set, nor any up-sale, or even worse. But because I said it hurts when something is done to me it's an excuse? How about no. It just does, if you'd like an excuse I would be more than happy to provide one. How are you justified to say something's on a review knowing it'll hurt that persons life. By not being able to provide for my 2 God children that I now have legal custody over. No kids to 2 kids overnight, not easy.  

I guess maybe I'm reading to much into it, and maybe just over thinking but, am I the only one that feels this way? That this is going to be the end of it. That now people will see this and be so disgusted and not even contact me. something I try so hard to ensure your needs/wants are met. That knowingly saying bad things about your personal experience with a provider, even tho allllllllllllllll before have nothing but great and positive things to say, is going to hurt there "career" why can't you just say, "eh wasn't MY type" and not say anything further to anyone.

I read the guys TER reviews prior to booking because chemistry is everything & I am to old to fake having a good time.  If you would ask for the fella who is interested in seeing you to pm you here 1st it may help you find your quality clients.  I just read your last 4 reviews & all the guys are low score reviewers, so it appears to be frequent for them as well.  

I personally, do not want to set myself up for failure if the date is already questionable.  Just food for thought.

Madame Patricia is correct. It is like there is a pattern of low score reviews. Imo, Some guys are followers that read your other reviews and follow suit. This is not fair and probably bad for your biz. It could be partly that you limit some of your services therefore, some guys that are preferred and fair in the review process, will not call you. I don't think there is anything negative about your height. It's actually rather different and sexy. Good luck to you darling...

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As Madame said "chemistry is everything" in this customer service job. Some hobbyists are ok for CFS. Some preferred GFE. In your case, I think your client got a false expectation. That is the reason I like P411. It list all the option so no false expectations.

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I think u ll have great replys. Going from walking the streets to now hosting within a hotel and just posting on a website is extremely new and different then what I've known. If he had false expectations then that was on him, because it was talked about before the arrival.  

Also, when you say have them PM me on here most of my clients know nothing about this site. But as far as chemistry I'm a people person I've worked customer service IT work all my life and currently,  being able to read people and understand what "type" of person they are comes from speaking with them like over the phone. I've turned some men down because I knew I wasn't what they were looking for. But the men I do see we enjoy each other. And I can hold a conversation with a complete stranger at the grocery store lol easily I love working with the public.  

As far as the low scores yes 5 is low, but I'm happy with my 7's and the rest. They may not be 10s sorry, I'm no porn star. I'm not fake I'm just me. Some men I've come to see have this expectation that these females are going to be like what they see in the movies they watch. I can be whatever you like, but you have to be willing. And understanding I'm just a normal anybody that with some time and multiple encounters, can be something extremely...... Lol  

All in all I appreciate all your feedback very much, I'm a down to earth big hearted girl next door, or so I've been told lol. I'm lucky to be alive honestly. From being kidnapped, beat over the head 7 times with a wrench, locked in the trunk of a car for hours, locked in cages, ribs broke, jaw broke 2xs, shot, stabbed, beat over the head with a rock, thrown from the 2nd floor hotel window... n then some. Ive currently lost 198lbs, so to be told im thick, and  for thinking these 7s are good my apologies if there not, and because of that I don't "deserve" the "higher" cliental. Shame, if you ask me.

Also, so since I have only 7's and those are considered low and now this 5, how does that mean I only deserve the lower clientele? So the "higher" see this and assume someone else's encounter is how theirs may be? So in a sense now I have to work 4xs as hard because I don't deserve the "higher" clients....  

How about u get to know me, talk to me say hello and see for yourself. It's a shame but like I've always said, don't ever judge a book by its cover, take a look in the mirror and realize that is the ONLY person you should ever judge.

Please don't take any of this as I'm angry or being mean, honestly I wrote that all with tears falling. It just hurts, because I always like to to above and beyond the expected, but not be given a chance to do better, hurts.

After what you been thought I’m surprised you’d even want to be an escort.  
Especially if you’re meeting guys without screening them.

(“From being kidnapped, beat over the head 7 times with a wrench, locked in the trunk of a car for hours, locked in cages, ribs broke, jaw broke 2xs, shot, stabbed, beat over the head with a rock, thrown from the 2nd floor hotel window... n then some”). Your words.

Listen to some of the advice here and know who you’re meeting,  you don’t have to be a 9 or 10 to have a good time with just know what your client is expecting and if you can’t give it to him let him know.  Then there shouldn’t be any disappointments on either side.

Remember have fun but always play safe

Screening? Oh lawd I got a long way to go lol but I can do it.  

Oh and I do make sure I know what he wants but if your not gonna tell me somethings till u get there then??..... Whose fault is that  

I see, we'll thanks. And my height...well, there is nothing I can do to change it lol I just have more to.... Decorate lol  

I can understand the personal hurt from getting a crappy review.  Whether it's TER, or corporate annual review, nobody likes negative input.  For what it's worth, I think your photos show a strikingly beautiful woman, and at 6'2", even more of an incredibly sexy young woman.  On the appearance scale, I'd give you at least an 8.  Add the heels, and maybe 9.  But for me, add 15-20 years and I'd love to give you a call but not before.  Some like vanilla, and I like strawberry.   Remember to smile and remember it can always be worse!

From TER  Review Submission Guidelines

"In order to keep our performance ratings consistent, we set up the following system: An escort provider may only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she also willing to performs the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, Anal Sex, or More than One Guy. The addition of each offering will raise the score she is eligible for by one point.

This does not mean she earns extra points for performing the service; just that she is now eligible for a higher score. Her maximum eligible score is based on what is offered, not what is taken. You may or may not be interested in the “extra” services she has, but the fact she offers them makes her eligible for the higher score.

So I read every single one of your reviews and comments above:
1. One of the best thing about this hobby is that it is truly about 31 flavors. What I mean by that is that everyone is looking for something different. Some GFE, some everything covered, Some spinners and some BBW. Anyways, if I had the privilege of marketing you I would definitely feature your length. "Tall beautiful lady ready to tower over your every sexual needs".  
2. On that note: ever thought about becoming a dominatrix (lot of people in this environment are okay with everything covered) . Guys would quiver in your presence. Think - you in black leather with 5 inch pumps. Shit guys are jerking off just thinking about it. Also you can definitely charge a lot more for these sessions
3. I apologize if my next comment comes across rude but I do wish you would hold yourself in a higher light. I know money can be tight and you sometimes feel like you need to do whatever to get by but you need to be in a safe environment and protect yourself. Screening guys are important. kids can't fend for themselves if something happens to you.  
4. Do I have other suggestions. Sure but I won't bored the rest of the board with it. Best of luck to you

I read with interest this entire thread, and it really got my fire lit!  What a great community we have!  What wonderful suggestions from providers and hobbyists alike. What a wonderful range of comments, concerns, and suggestions!

This type of thread helps the entire TER community. Thanks for the posts, my friends, they are very helpful.  

I just got off the phone with Molly (who is checking my references) and I can't wait until we meet!
Understanding and honoring the scoring system is very important to the community. Look for my review in the near future!

And she does tower over me when she wears heels....

And I have seen her 17 or 18 times....

I do like your photos!

Good luck to you....

And yes tthere is a knowllege on this board.

RocketMan

Ok nd? I offer most of those...
 

I don't think u we're boring. And as a matter of fact it made me smile, actually I have tried dominatrix and or fetishes, I'm ok with doing that. Me being a submissive person normally, they say we make the best Doms. But I have NO clue were to start, how it's suppose to be done correctly or anything I want to do it but I feel like lost? Does that make sense? Kinda like your first day on the job feeling,  

Aww I appreciate that, u can't please everybody. It's just not gonna happen, it bothers me how others may view me just based of some reviews, without actually taking time out to know me, and yes these kids need me, and to be honest I don't even know how to screen, I've just gone off my gut,  

Man oh man! I really love that everyone not only took time out to read my posting, but also were willing to offer some advice. It's so appreciated, being new to the site and this whole....well you know lol it's great that people are willing to help even tho they may not receive nothing in return. And now a days that's a rarity.  

I don't know if I agree with the whole numbers as far as part of a score. Why can't they just write their experience with the provider and what happend. Versus giving her a number 1-10. And you thought you had self esteem issues before lol  

I'm going to be blunt here. There's not a single thing wrong with you or the way you are doing business. You're a little new, but that is temporary. There's some flex in results with meeting a new provider because it's problematic to describe rules and such in advance but that is just what it is. Providers and clients need to get over it or they are in the wrong activity.  Would I prefer that everyone did exactly my preference?  Yes but they don't. I got over it.  

Scores are overrated. It's all about what is in the narrative. I think scores should be done away with entirely, except maybe appearance, but I guess they are just a short cut.  Scores above 7 are especially worthless. (I do enjoy reading disastrous encounters of low scoring reviews ha ha). There are many 10's that don't interest me, and many 5s and 6s I'd see repeatedly.  

No big whoop. You are what you is. Now that I know what you is, I'll be glad to give you a call one of these days when your program and mine (which changes daily) match up. No worries