I need to vent. And would like to know what this board thinks about this situtation I have had with a provider in our greater Phoenix area over the past few months. I am using an alisaes to be able to really vent. And also so I don't get pms asking me to out her, I would never do that, I will take the high road on this one. So here goes: I had emailed this provider a few months back, sent my references, and all needed info. She got back to me, and we set up our first appointment. It was set up for about a week out, she sent me a text at 2:00am on the morning we were to meet saying that her period had come early, and that she had to cancel, our appointment was for like 12:00 noon I believe. I thought shit happens, and we rescheduled for a week or two later. Then I text about 2 days before our rescheduled appointment to see if we were still "on". She replies that she has a doctors appointment, and that she does not remember setting up our appointment. So we reschedule again, only to be cancelled on AGAIN for her period. By now I am thinking, she, for whatever reason does not want to see me. So I ask her, "Do you not want to see me? It is ok, If you don't just tell me" She tells me, "I really do want to see you honey, I just want you to be happy when we are together" So I tell her to get in touch with me when she has some time. She can't do incall anymore, so I pretty much forget about seeing her. Over the next couple of months she, out of the blue, shoots me some texts about getting together, so I ask her when, we can never figure out a time that works for both of us, once again "shit happens" no big deal. Then I see her post that she is doing incall again, and has a holiday special. I text her, saying, "lets get together". She tells me she is all booked up for the week(I texted her about 10 minutes after she put up the incall/holiday special add). I find it hard to believe she is all booked up alreay for the week(why run an add if you can't see anyone) makes no sence to me. Anyway she says"After December 4th I can see you anytime" So we set up an incall appoitment on December 8th at 11:00am(today). Yep, you guessed it, I get a call from her yesterday at like 3:00ish, I am with some people, and can't take the call, so I send it to voicemail. She leaves a voicemail telling me that the property management where she lives is cutting down all the trees on the property, and that they will be doing it tomorrow also, and that it will be too noisy for us to meet. and then she keeps the message going by recording her talking to the guys cutting down the trees(so I can hear that she is not fucking with me). I send her a text, telling her I am with people and cant take her call. I ask her if we can use a place of one of her provider friends, and she says"no", so I say"are you going to get a room" and she says"no". Now I am thinking you've gotta be fucking kidding me, she is cancelling on me again, over some trees! So I tell her I have been patient with her, but that I do not appreciate her cancelling on me over and over and over again and that this is bullshit! And that in my 20+ years in the hobby no other provider has ever done this to me. And I asked her to put herself in my shoes, and how she would be pissed. Then she tells me how it is my fault for always wanting to schedule when it is her time of the month! what?!? Then she says she was gonna make it up to me(heard that one before), she says she was gonna make it up to me for free! LOL!! Ya right!! I am not an asshole, I respect providers and their time. I have several good white listings from some of the top providers in the valley and the nation. I hobby in other cities, usually utr girls. Phoenix has some of the best providers in the nation! Was I wrong on calling her on her bullshit...is it bullshit? Thanks for letting me vent. I really do feel sorry for her, I would never see her, even for free. I really think she has mental health issues, and needs help.

She could have been married to a contractor and thought that was the norm for a business model.

lol! maybe thats it! The thing that stuns me is she has lots of really good reviews. I can't see other guys putting up with that bullshit! No such thing as the "golden poon"!!

Top answer: MOVE ON & FORGET ABOUT IT

It's really about treating yourself right. There are flakey women. There are flakey men. That's it.

Just treat yourself good and don't put yourself through that misery again.


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Well there lies the problem her poon is gold, you need a platinum poon.

Didn't Eintsien say there were no coincidences?

Sorry mate, I think you are letting yourself get overworked on this one. I could understand being upset if you got robbed, caught a disease, or busted. Outside of that, you should've stopped after the second period excuse.  I would give her credit for at least calling you. I know guys who showed up and the lady didn't see them (sleeping or forgot).

There's so many flakes amongst both men and women in this hobby.  There's plenty others who aren't.  Move on and don't look back.

maybe you are right Rodger

Very well said. I agree completely. I have been hobbying for 20 + Years and meet some incredible ladies and some incredible flakes. Lets face it, Phoenix has some of the best providers in the country, so move on.

I agree move on. I know from your story who this is and she did the same with me. I was very surprised since she has very good reviews. Could be that she has forgot to take her meds or something.

wow that's kind a harsh. first off maybe she just didn't want to see the OP or yourself. maybe she has reasons for canceling, or maybe he just kept annoying her so much that she refused to see anyone who does that to them. the women on this board have a right to refuse service for any reason they want.

and sencond, saying someone is mental or hasn't taken they're meds is not cool at all, for anyone. come on guys, like the above posts said, just move on. there's plenty fish in the sea.

Would have stopped after the second "period" issue.

That is my whole point! I gladly move on if she is adult enough to tell me she is not interested in seeing me in the first place. But to continue to reschedule, and cancel is bullshit! If I as a hobbyist do that to a provider, she would either get on the provider only board, and rip me a new one to all other providers on what a asshole I am, or at least tells all the providers she knows to stay away from this one! So I would be an asshole. Now, if I come on here and "out" her, I would still be an asshole. I am an adult, and yes there are plenty of other fish in this great sea we call Phoenix. So ladies when you don't want to see someone, just say so, don't pull this bullshit.

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to be that irresponsible is BULLSHIT. You are right about the need to just hear a "no thank you" or something, so you have some closure and you can move forward. This is a review board and I think it is important that the "irresponsible player types" be reviewed as such. Had this one been reviewed as such and you had done your homework and seen the review, you would not have wasted your time and energy. Just my .02...
Best wishes in the future!