I know there really is no good reason to post this.  It will not change anything, but sometimes a minor rant is cathartic.  But before I begin I want to make it clear that I am not saying anything about a provider's right to discriminate or her reason for discriminating.  I am not trying to convince her or anyone else that I am not a member of an inferior race.  Hey I do not believe that she is a part of any federal or state government nor, do I believe she employed more than 15 people so the Civil Rights Act of 64 does not apply to her, nor should it.  With that said:

Everyone is deserving of common courtesy provided that they are also courteous and respectful.  Ideally you should get as good as you give and, as a minimum give as good as you get.

Well actually kind sir I beg to differ with your analysis. The point is that nothing mattered but my ethnicity. The only way having reviews would be relevant is if I threatened to post false reviews about her, which I would not do. You must remember good sir the provider has an alternate verification process. If I have missed another way that reviews would be relevant I welcome your enlightenment as it may save me some bother in the future. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post.

I understand however, how do we know who or what he represents. I don't normally respond to a post when posted with an alias. I do think that everyone regardless of color should be afforded a reasonable level of respect. Moreover, I think that all providers are entitled to accept or reject any prospective client with or with out explanation. If a person is a gentleman and treats providers with respect, just like The Temptations song, treat her like a lady, I would be surprised to find many great ladies that would decline. I believe the key elements are, kind and courteous, Not rude or abrasive, have the wherewithal to fund, no unsafe or dangerous request and that you have good hygiene. Also, you understand it is business and not the dating game. Good Luck to you.

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Thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my post.  However, my post was not concerned with why she would not see the black man in general, and me in particular.  But rather why she, in particular, and providers in general do not  post that they will not see black men for whatever the reason. I tried to make that plain when I stated that it was her absolute right to discriminate for whatever the reason.  I would ask that you reread my post and if you have any suggestions how I can make that point clearer I would greatly appreciate it.  Thank you

Nah, it's a tad racist here.  

First and foremost I do not agree with how you've been treated.  
As to your specific question, a lady might not disclose publicly she is a racist. It's bad for business in general. Another reason for not disclosing that from the onset is because she has a pimp of a similar ethnic background as you and he would feel threatened.  
That would be two very logical reasons an open menu lady would not advertise she is being run by a pimp or worse.  

Thanks for actually reading my post.  And the same to the gentleman from AK.  That is something to chew on.  If he only knew me he would not be threatened. Women have no problem telling me no.

I am not 1 of them.  African-American gents are always welcome.

Have HUGE members and impressive stamina. Although pleasurable, it CAN put a lady out of business for a couple of days. If she is a petite Asian spinner, maybe she was worried about size? Just a thought
I hope you find a suitable alternative and have an excellent time!

Well my there pretty lady, you sure have a pretty mouth.........

Regarding what you wrote about looking like Jabba the Hut, I suggest you follow your own advice and email her again and tell her that you are white and you look and smell like Jabba the Hut, and you have Princess Leia in chains by your side, she is also dressed provocatively for some reason, and you are eating frogs right now and demanding more Domino's Pizza.  You are also watching someone fight some kind of creature to the death for your amusement.  But you are white, so she has to see you.   Yea, I think that would work.  As long as you don't tell her that you are black.  That will blow your cover story for sure.  

It's difficult to make a cogent point and rant at the same time. The central point will often be lost in the "hot words" . I would suggest if you want to rant, then let her rip. If you want to start a discussion around a specific topic, stick to that topic and  Keep It Simple

Well.......I give a dam.

Are these encounters not supposed to be a mutually enjoyable experience, or are you saying the business side trumps all else? Why wouldn't an ASP have the right to refuse anyone for whatever reason she has. Where is the MUTUAL respect in your equation? We're dealing with human beings here and opinions and practices are formed by life's experiences. I have no idea what they may be, but they are what they are. (I got sick after eating blueberry pie almost 50 years ago......haven't touched it since!) When I call someone for the first time I introduce myself and give my age, ethnicity (specific...not just Caucasian) approx. height and weight and years I've been a TER member. I do this so that when I arrive there are no surpirises and I know beforehand she can at least tolerate who I am and what I look like....lol.
There are many types of ASP's I don't see based on body type, ethnicity, their pics, services offered, personality on the phone, etc. Does this make me a bigot? I think I should be able to spend my time with whom I'm somewhat confident I'll enjoy myself with and where there may be some some things in common.
Maybe they don't put who or what they won't see because they're trying to be PC.......lord knows it's the law of the land these days......or maybe just didn't think of it. Either way, it's her right to refuse ANYONE just as it's our right ONLY to see who appears pleasing to us.
I'm sorry you hit this bump in the road, but know this won't be a problem with many other friends out there.

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post. However I would be remiss if I did not point out that I absolutely agree and reaffirm her right, and that of any provider, to discriminate for any reason, and I so stated in the first paragraph of my post. The question was does not common courtesy suggest she should also place in the ad that she does not see African Americans, Blacks, Negroes, Porch Jockeys, Jungle Bunnies, Tar Babies, etc. Just like she included pricing screening and other information in her ad. Thank you once again.

Many of the younger providers will tell you horror stories about violence and attempts to "recruit" girls. A lot of these guys are apparently black. I've heard a few of those stories from these girls. Unfortunately, there is a thug mentality in many young people regardless of color. I get your rant, but unfortunately in this line of business, racial stereotyping makes prudent financial and safety sense otherwise these ladies wouldn't be doing it.  It's not a matter of fairness, it simply is. If this profession was out in the open, then this may not be an issue.  End racism, vote libertarian.  

And again I am not concerned with why the provider feels that way that is her business. However When she places an ad and causes me to waste my time and effort that is my business. So again I do not care why she will not see Blackmen. I care about why she does not so clearly state in her ad. And I legitimately wanted to know why a provider would not say so in her ad. Once again I do not care why she will not see Blackmen, it is immaterial to my post, it is irrelevant to my post, it has nothing to do with my post. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post.

So it's irrelevant to your post? LOL!! No, I understand your point and it would be a timesaver for all parties involved to post it.....and it's an important part for them. They could put it in in lieu of " please no contact from law enforcement", which is kind of like me requesting no sobriety checkpoints in Scottsdale. All things equal I agree with your sentiment.  

It's just a sketchy business/hobby on both sides. Everyone deserves common courtesy. I think the real question is why. Unless someone personally knows the provider and is willing to say why we will never know. Myself being a black man I've experienced being turned away for race but also as well as age. This isn't McDonalds and no one is guaranteed service. On the positive note  
at least you were turned away before the donation was given. To be real here are some of the stories I've heard "black men are cheap, black men pack to much meat, no attraction to black me It's just a sketchy business/hobby on both sides. Everyone deserves common courtesy. I think the real question is why. Unless someone personally knows the provider and is willing to say why we will never know. Myself being a black man I've experienced being turned away for race but also as well as age. This isn't McDonalds and no one is guaranteed service. On the positive note at least you were turned away before the donation was given. Even some of the black female providers won't see black males. To be real here are some of the stories I've heard "black men are cheap, black men pack to much meat, no attraction to black men, my boyfriend won't allow me to see black men, and the good old a black man will rob me".  n, men  my B/F

With all due respect, you are complaining about how you are wasting all this time and effort, but honestly, you aren't wasting that much time or effort when someone emails you back to tell you that they can't see you.  

Thank you for taking the time to respond.  I will chock that up as one no vote for the proposition that black hobbyists are not entitled to common courtesy.  Thank you for taking the time to respond.

I would say yes, she already avoids clients under 35 so why not ethnicity.

Hello

I can say that Gina is right You're just known for having a big dick, BOOM said it, and she's a tiny Asian spinner Come on, who wouldn't want to be known for that, I sure as hell would if I was a guy
As for the whole placing it on her ad thing, I believe I was the one who told her it didn't come across right, and neither she or I is racist. I don't think it sounds very nice and people may take it the wrong way.
And she can't exactly say "I won't see guys with big dicks" first of all BP would take her ad down and secondly make everyone else feel weird...

You misunderstand.  I am not voting against common courtesy to black hobbyists, I tried unsuccessfully to explain how you got common courtesy anyway, even though the courtesy you received was not in the format that you wanted, because it was by email, and not in the ad.

I get tried of some woman in this hobby, saying they don't see AA men!  It's funny how we all want to be view as our own person, but some people always group AA men together.  We as black men are different, just like white men in this hobby.  I find that some woman in this hobby are insecure and don't know how to be truly open minded.  If a lady does not see AA men, it's her lost.  

Could be a lot of reasons.  I've heard a lot of stories, but credit the girl for keeping thee screening private between you and her.  I have less respext for a girl who puts doesnt see blacks on her ad.

It's funny do we put all providers good or bad into same group? No! The smart hobbyist will  
spend time and research which providers is the best for them to see.  So why can't a  
escort do the same with background checks?  

I didnt get that was your main point too, but I think its uncool for providers to state "i dont see blacks" in their ad.  I'm a white guy, and seeing that would turn me off.

Rogerdaily said that he personally knows a white provider with a black pimp, and that is why she doesn't see black men, so he attested that he knows personally that this is a real example.  He gave some other plausible examples too.  If I understand you correctly, you are categorically saying that everything he just said is bullshit.    Who are you to say that this is bullshit, and then to tell him that he is ignorant with his big dick theory?  You are really saying that someone is ignorant when they say that dicks come in all sizes?  Who are you anyway, the resident black dick expert?  Do you have some sort of chart that says that black dicks don't in fact come in all sizes?

Wow Mr- Blond is it?  Where did you come from and why don't you have at least one review?  I was saying the whole mind set is ignorant, not just the dick theory.  All of it, is a way to cover up racist attitudes and guess what it not always white people with this stupid mind set either.

I see all races of men and women and by far the biggest dicks have been on skinny white guys
I always ad EOE in my ads and think other girls should also if they see all races
EOE  
Equal opportunity escort  

You are bringing up red herring arguments instead of defending what you said.  The number of reviews I wrote is irrelevant to this discussion, so I am not going to grace you with a reply to that question.  

Wow Mr.-Blond either you can't read or just being a racist asshole.  I never called roger a liar and don't twist my words smart guy.  It's clear your point is to be a clown on this subject.

I must've misinterpreted the response, I thought you "loved" how I brought that info up lol.

In summary, you don't defend what you wrote even after I quoted exactly what you wrote and threw your own words back at you, you back-pedal when you were called on it, you use red herring arguments, and as you appear to be in an indefensible position, you feel that somehow this makes me the racist asshole?  That is a leap you are making there, buddy.  What a life you must have to be carrying that chip on your shoulder.  

Rodgerdaily you made some good points. I am glad you see, I was not calling you a liar either. So I know what Mr. Blond was trying to do and it was stupid.  

But I have talked to quite a few of the ladies I have seen why they put in their post "Sorry, but I don't see AA men" or "no AA men under 35" and the answer is pretty consistent: they keep getting African-American men (usually younger) who want to try to be their pimps and can get violent about it when rebuffed, and these ladies want nothing to do with it.  Now, its not all black men, or even all young black men, but it happened so many times, that they just don't want to take the chance.  So, I think its a damned shame that these assholes are ruining it for the decent African-American hobbyists who, like me, just want to have a nice time.  And I know that such guys exist, because I have met them and drank with them -- but not here in the US, where we treat providers like criminals and hobbyists like perverts.  But in other countries, where things are more normal, and prostitution is not illegal, but pimping is, then you have a very different situation.  I have met so many white and black american hobbyists sitting in a bar in the Dominican Republic, and the situation is very different.  There, pimping is just not an issue, and white and black hobbyists are on a pretty equal footing.  Sure, there might be a few ladies who prefer not to see black men, but it is a tiny fraction compared to here in the US.  So, I don't think it is a racial prejudice thing per se, but more like racial profiling, due to the stupidly bad situation caused by criminalizing a victimless crime.

Wow man you can't read and a fool. So I am moving on from your stupid comments!

Personally I do not find black women to be sexually attractive. It isn't the body, it is just not the facial features that were a part of my developing years. I grew up in a part of the country with almost no black people. I don't feel they are inferior in any way but they just don't turn me on.  

She wasted less of your time then it took you to post your OP. Clearly not much of a waste at all. The level of indignation you feel is not in balance with your complaint. Thus your complaint is probably REALLY not that she didn't say on her site that she won't see black men. Your complaint is actually that she won't see black men in the first place and it bothers you. This is backed up by your repeated use of racial slurs when you say that she should post she doesn't see black men on her site. You can't type that without expressing a certain amount of anger and thus clearly your issue is the racial one. It is just to bad that you can not come to grips with this or admit it.  

Hi ITAdmin thanks for the honest post and I use to think just like you, but about white woman.  Then I started in this hobby with a open mind and met some really good ladies.  It's funny when we get caught up on race or things we are not comfortable with personally. You miss out on so much more in the long run.

I don't doubt it. It just is my personality. When I go to a restaurant I never order something unknown if the menu has a dish I know I love. This "hobby" is pretty much the same thing imho. At least to my way of thinking. If I have $300+ on the line do I want to risk something that just may not work for me or go with something more familiar and comfortable. I have never been one to over burden myself with choice and am usually sure of just what I want and like and don't generally stray from it  

ITAdmin  I think everybody that eats ice cream, does not get the same flavor every time.  Just give it a try, you might like it.  I learned flavors may look different, but they all taste great! So the same applies to woman, they might look different. If you respect them and know what you are doing in your private party, you will enjoy your parties no matter the race.  LOL

you must realize that he is posting under an alias. and as you very well know some do the vast majority of their  posting under an alias and submit reviews under  their real screen name. So for all you know he could have a hundred or more reviews.  since you do not know your comment is stupid and irresponsible as are all you comments about the reviews of others.