It all depends on how long you want to be in the club, what you are looking for, and how much you want to spend.
Christie's Cabaret has some options for dances from $10 to $400. $10 table dance per song, $25 for private, then up for VIP. If you go there, you better be ready to spend, as the ladies will drain your wallet. They like to keep dancing and racking up the tab till you say stop. It's kind of annoying.
Alaskan Bush Co. Is fun. You get a choice of topless or full nude with the two different bars. The hotter ladies hang out on the topless side and leave just before 2am. At 2am, alcohol stops and everybody goes to the full nude side. This is when the party starts. The private lap dances get a little more intense, are full nude, and the ladies do their magic to make you want to drain you wallet. YMMV, but some of the less modelesque ladies will let your hands roam, and their hands roam too.
I personally like Sonny's and Desert Flame. They are both smaller, calmer venues with a great variety of ladies.
Sonny's dances cost a little more. Depending in the lady, and how busy, they may give you a higher mileage dance. More thans once, I have been allowed to kiss and suck breasts and neck during the $125 3 song dances. A few times I have been given a good look at the V. A couple times I have had a bikini covered V in my face, and finger playing with the V. I do respect that the ladies are not pushy about VIP dances, and do keep friendly if you ask them to come back later. Dances in VIP have been very sensual, but of course YMMV.
Although I have not received as much mileage at Desert Falme, I prefer this club for some reason. Probably because the ladies are not pushing private dances all the time and there are a couple ladies that are truly pleasant to hang out with. I have been able to kiss and suck necks and breast. But very limited on roaming hands. The ladies are very good at grinding, so much so, that I have a couple dancers that like to work me to completion in my pants. They knew what they were doing too, as they seemed to be thrilled with theirself for taking me over the edge.
Good luck and enjoy. With all things in this hobby, respect, personability, and generosity can take you are.