Good morning,

Word on the street is that someone is spreading ugly rumors about me. They are saying that I had something to do with the CSR bust & that I am an informant for the police. They are also saying that I have a family member in prison that is informing me as well.

First of all, what would I have to gain by ratting out a good agency & a good friend?

Second, Why would I go to LE about a hobby that I enjoy very much?

Third, I don't have any relatives that have been imprisoned.

I am supposedly on some kind of black list for this for all providers. That is injustice. I have done nothing wrong. I know many of you do not know what I am talking about & wonder why this up on the board. For those of you that are out there spreading these untruths about me, knock it off. Thank you,

TMAN

TMAN,

I certainly haven't heard any rumors at all and it is childish to spread rumors in my opinion. Sometimes people don't have better things I do I guess.

I hope the rumor soon will die out and that you can enjoy the hobby like everyone else. I see that you have met many ladies in the Valley and I hope that you can continue doing that really soon.

Also I have not heard anything about a black list.

Good luck and enjoy the many wonderful ladies we have in the Valley!

Anna

that who ever it is would stop...No matter how someone may feel about another especially if it's hate just walk away, saying and doing nasty hurtful things is so very very awful! You should be ashamed of yourself and I will tell you that it will bite you in the ass someday!!
"What comes around goes around"

TMan has always been very nice to me and I have been to 2 of his parties and he has always shown respect for the ladies...(may not agree on how the raffles go...but that can be worked out) but many gents have enjoyed his hospitality too!

No matter how much you may not like someone this is totally out of line and very disturbing and vindictive behavior....if anyone knows of this person they should be outed as this person is the one never to trust, they will turn on your or someone you love!

Sorry you are going through this Tman.


This person needs to be outed!!!!!

My thanks to both Anna & Terrie for their support. What prompted me to do this was , I tried to set something up with a provider in the valley via email. I asked for an appointment. They said sure, just tell me the day & time plus 2 references.I gave a specific time & day. They came back with, sorry that day is booked. Then, I responded with how about the following day. They respoded with not that day wont work, nor the following day, next week or the week after that.

I asked why wont you see me? They responded with " I dont want to get involved with all the negative crap.  That set me off into trying to find out what was going on. I got a hold of a friend of mine. She told me what she had heard & I imedietlty new what was going on. Her not wanting to see me made sense.
Thank you 2 ladies for your continued support.

TMAN

I assume it is up to each person to make a decison if they want to meet with you or not and if they want to be involved in what they think is true.

But my opinion has always been about everyone is, that as long as that person hasn't done anything against me personally I simply don't listen to it. And like Terri said you have always treated me with respect and I always had a great time at your parties.

I have no reason to listen to any rumors (about anyone) nor will I support any childish behavior like this.

And also like Terri said: What goes around, comes around. It is funny how karma works sometimes. And I truly believe we all pay into our karma account our entire lives.

Anna

I am sure it is all lies...and must agree with the advice as well...what goes around comes around.

I have been hit with this same jealous, insecure obsession of REVENGE.  Do we drop to their LOW level and return the FAVOR?  Do we let Karma work?  How about understanding their SICKNESS and rise above by forgiving and move on?  Each one has it's own repercussions.

We have to choose which is BEST.  Normally we can ignore the petty BS and move on...but what about when they destroy your career, reputation and relationships?  Worse yet...set you up for jail, harm or death??  Who will HELP and can we really walk away safe, unharmed or unscathed???

I loved that it was suggested that they should be outted...I think I agree with this.  They seem to have no problem spreading lies, rumors and slander.  They don't mind stalking, exposing or being harmful...why should we?  Why TONY...cause you and I are btter then that aren't we???

These jerks who lie are just sick enough to act out there illness and expose themselves, without our help. They look REAL BAD instead of us.  REAL people see through it all and will ignore them too.  During their rampage they get cocky with false power and make many mistakes and get caught eventually.  Lies don't stay buried forever, truth always comes out in the end always.  People who know you better, your true friends and those who love you...will always stick by you.  This I can assure you....patience is a virture and forgiveness is probably the most difficult and most IMPORTANT thing in our LIVES.

Tony...you are strong and have weathered much worse then this...just like me.  Watch how the BS will hit the FAN.  LOVE will stay standing and the rest will disappear with KARMA.

An evil rotton bad apple...falls quickly, stinks BAD, dries up and blows away.  Unfortunately not before damage is done. The TRUTH always comes out in the END and has a way of healing, trust me on this one.  If you are patient, forgiving, loving and above HONEST...then that wonderful INTEGRITY that you and I work so hard to build up will be all the defence we will need.  Looks like we are not alone on this either.

I would like to say for the record that anything my stalker has said about ME is a lie. If you would like to hear the truth, then just call me.  She is very dangerous, compulsive and unstable.  She needs serious help, not support and trust.  Anyone who would go to such lengths is a true stalker and I understand why everyone doesn't want her after them as well.  I tried to help her and this is my thanks.  Beware out there...you could be next on her hit list. Also if you would like to know who she is, I will tell you...however you all already know don't you?  Why cause she has gone to EVERY person she can find to listen to her.  So it is not really a secret now is it.  I guess if you want to believe the lies you will.  If you don't, then let me know.  

My business, reputation and working relationships have been destroyed by one evil slandering stalker.  I have tried to explain to people, but the damage is done and still continues.  It is to DANGEROUS for me to work now...it's a REAL shame too...hence my early semi-retirement for my own safety.  I am just surprised how many people really don't want me to retire.  Thanks for all the TRUE LOVE and SUPPORT I have received from my REAL friends during this time.  LOVE is real, trust is earned and patience is a virture.

So do we get back to SEX, ride the storm out or go kick ass...that is the question...good luck Tony...you have my love and support which ever you choose and I know you will do what's right.

While I have been laying low for my safety...guess what happened...my BUSH grew back...lol...anyone interested or have a bush fetish...before I wack it off?

I had a great time at the halloween party and have some leftover halloween CANDY to share as well.  The only thing anyone has to worry about me...is my insatiable hunger...I only have sweetness to share...that's why I am called CANDY!!!

Those girls just don't know what they are missing.  It is too bad that rumors, especially false ones have to be the center of some peoples lives.  You have always been a gentleman to me.  I wish you only the best and know that just continue to be your true self and everyone will find out that you are truly one of the "good guys".

There are a lot of streets out there. Could you be more specific? The Sheika is confused. Lost in the idiom, if you will.. With all the aliases around, it is difficult to know the players without a score card.

LOVE AND PEACE,

Sheika Fatima