A few years back I belonged to a swingers group on Yahoo. And was lucky enough to be invited to a couple parties. There was nothing illegal ever done there (the only rules they had were once you arrived you had to be naked & no means no). I did meet an provider friend there (by chance), but there was no session fee. I was amazed.

I was dating a guy who said he was throwing the party. He was stupid and probably lying. but the party was low budget in my opinion. not the type of people i would normally hang out with at all....
not my cup of tea, so i left early....it was whack.

That was right down the street from my home when I lived in Chandler!