It seems to me that the world is much more enlightened than when I was a 20-something year old, long ago.  Some of the signs I see are an openness of preferences and a public acknowledgement that women have equal rights to enjoying their sexuality.  That's good.  It used to be about what the man wanted and got.  We ignored women and even put their desires behind ours.  We didn't think they could enjoy sex the way we could.  How wrong that was.  Another sign that I find refreshing is the open attitude about that most marvelous wonder of the human female - the female orgasm.  If you have not previously found this website, let me share a incredible source of beauty and amazing wonder.  Not porn, but very erotic and sensual.  In some of my more recent intimate moments with wonderful ladies, I've asked about being able to witness the wonder of their bringing themselves to that ultimate moment.  Truely an amazing thing to behold.  Thank you ladies for sharing.