are just that. My thoughts and personal stories about the hobby range from sharing experiences Ive had to telling a silly story about my dog stealing someones money clip....someone lately said I needed to keep a diary instead of posting my useless experiences. well here's how I see it....If you see one of my post and you know me by now just move forward please. the fact that that so many read them and respond mostly  via PMS and encourage me keeps me writing makes up for the few the try to be hurtful mostly aliases are the ones that are negative.I have been  a provider for five years posting here mostly in the last year or so....Posting is a way to have an insight into the personality of the poster a chance to get to know their sense of humor or lack of.....it gives  you a preview of  just who you might be meeting someday. Some naysayers will say it is all marketing all I can tell you is this, with or without posting I do just fine.The simple truth is I enjoy sharing, I get this from my mother who has keep a diary since she was 13yrs old and still writes everyday,why? because she enjoys it and I love reading her stories and experiences that made her who she is today.I wish more providers would come forward and share their stories with us we ladies have some of the BEST stories out there by far and I for one would love to read them......Victoria.... Queen of the useless post hummm...Queen Victoria it does have a nice ring to it...LOL

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Hi Victoria,  I may not post much, but I must say I always enjoy reading your posts.  So the heck with the naysayers...you go girl...as Jazz would say "Its all Good".  

Not Fade Away

It takes a certain amount of 'cojones' to post to any public (or semi-public) forum, simply because not everyone is going to share the same opinion.  So, above and beyond anything, I applaud your 'balls'.

I have heard from a number of individuals that they like and appreciate the provider point of view.  I'm not one to be vulnerable to a public forum, so I 'blog'... figuring that anyone reading it has be proactively seeking my opinions in the first place.

Regardless, I enjoy reading your posts and respect the fact that you offer a provider perspective when others (like myself) are often too chicken to do so.

Keep on keepin' on, Queen Victoria!  Until I get a bit more experience 'under my belt' (pun intended) I will remain in the background... just a humble lady-in-waiting.  

Wow you sound like a very nice girl you can tell by your post that you can express yourself in a good manner, I say it should not take balls to post we should all feel free to express ourselves...although granted,you do need a thick skin at times but most posters are not mean spirited people. I would encourage you to stop by and post I for one am curious as to finding out more about you if I am,think of all the nice guys you might meet here. Your photos are beautiful very 1950's pin-up girl look very tasteful and classy......Victoria

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Discussion Board is just that, topics for shared discussion.
Your personal thoughts aren't discussion.
If not marketing, then it comes across as  attention seeking. I'm sure response would be warmer if it didn't come across as all about you.
With all the adventure under your belt. There could be too many stoires and not enough time.
I'm sure you're trying. At times it may come across as too hard sweetheart.
Just my thoughts...posted with kindness.



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That sure wasn’t called for. I think Victoria’s posts are very entertaining.

You just keep it going Vic many of us missed you here.

If there was more discussion that would be wonderful that is why I try to get more providers involved in the process, if you read the thread you can see why they do not post because they think someone like you will take them down. As far as attention I get plenty of that why can someone not just enjoy posting for fun? Personal thoughts can be a way of getting others to share. I love when someone takes the time to write and share his or her story but that's just me I guess.....V

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Many ladies post on the board and you are no where except on your own personal story.

Only one other negative post compared to the rest so it has nothing to do with why they don't post. Just could be they have better things to do.

just another opinion.

I think a lot of ladies don’t post here because of all the negative replies they get here. What would this board be like with out them?
Run them off and all we have is us guys to talk to and I don’t want to talk to you.

continuing source that over bounds perfect!

again this post has nothing to do with why others don't post, if they wanted to they would, they are big girl and most of them know how to defend themselves well.

Just have to learn to take the good with the bad!

Thats funny...REALLY ...Thats really funny