was that when you have so many reliable options here in PHX there is no need to patronize the relatively obvious "duds" that might appear (ont aiming this at the many reputable traveling gals like Tiffany etc)......that even includes you sweetie

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For getting the gist of my post. In no way do I support rip-offs or upsells. I haven't made it in this industry for three years by misleading men. I appreciate you comprehending the message. As for the aliases, they're a mainstay on this board. Seems like we have an awful lot of men with pussies running around here when it comes to issues. Hacker and I restrain ourselves pretty well, but we always trade opinions with our own names. Gotta respect that.

Thanks for your post, though sweet pea!

Meg

You want the standard line that almost every single legit lady uses on her website? And to be honest, it doesn't make any difference, just like it doesn't matter if you touch the money in the envelope before, during or after the appointments starts. If a cop books time with you and you didn't screen or you did and he slips through, you're going to be arrested. Period. Whether you've done anything or not. Counting money, not counting money, having statements on a website or not makes no difference. Here is the standard "Boiler Plate" (or some variation of)  that almost every woman uses on her website:

This is not an offer of prostitution. Any money exchanged is for time and companionship only. Anything that may or may not transpire is neither contracted or compensated for and is between two consenting adults.

I don't recall reading that on this little kitten's site. Rather she stated in her FAQ's that tipping was necessary for anything to happen. That was and still is my point. If that guy got ripped off, well that sucks and of course I don't condone it despite some alias' inability to comprehend my post. But, again my two main points on this topic are:

1. Don't just look at the pretty pictures on the website, actually READ what the woman writes. When I had a website, I can't tell you how many hundreds of emails I got every month asking questions that were answered in the content of my website had they just read the shit I took the time to put on there.

and

2. DO YOUR HOMEWORK. Which means that when you see a woman you want to set an appointment with, do your research. Search for reviews, google search the phone number and the email on her advertisement. Check TER and Bigdoggie.net for reviews. Don't TOFTT unless your wallet is a bottomless pit and you don't mind potentially wasting money. With a little bit of research on this kitten, any guy who might've wanted to book with her would have seen that she had a rip-off review and would've passed.

So, that's it. I don't condone upselling or ripping clients off, but this is a sketchy business that attracts a lot of sketchy people, both men and women. So, when you have the opportunity to research, and every single one of you men do, do it. Don't whine when you get ripped off because you won't get ripped off if you do your homework. That's all I'm saying!

Megan

Megan,

First, no alias, this is the name that I have used for my past posts, I just do not post that frequently.

Second, based on my OPINION of what you wrote, it is my CHOICE not to do business with you.  So for that you are "not sure how you can be so dense".  That is a real intelligent response, someone does not agree with you so they are dense.

Lets look at what you I wrote wrote, just to refresh your otherwise crystal clear memory.

I wrote that the information on the website in question is vague.  I see info like "Please call me to setup our date and to chat about about my Rates & Donations" and "If you want quality you have to pay".  Maybe I am dense, but this does look like the add is attempting to lure in guys for an easy take, or an upsell at a minimum.  It is my guess that if you called, she would not talk about rates or expected service level based on what is paid because of the legal "boiler plate" issues discussed in this thread.  It is also my guess that once the session started, a guy would end up paying a lot more for the service level he expected initially, or settle for a lower level of service for the money he was willing to put out.

Then, if that happens, you intelligently articulated that "Guy should have done his homework" and "taking one for the team is fine, but don't bitch when it doesn't pan out" and she rips you off.  You seem to think that the onus is on the buyer, and if the buyer gets ripped off then "it's playing dirty pool and it's slimey" but its really the guys fault because he did not do his homework.  No fault of hers for posting the totally vague info on her rates.  

Also, she does not state that she is an upsell, just that it will cost a lot of money to have fun.  Tell me Megan, since you are so intelligent, what is a lot of money to have fun with her?  $200?  $2000?

And, if a guy does not do his homework feels that he has been ripped off, or if he is doing his homework and spots a potential rip off on the web, what is he supposed to do other than "bitch" here?  Call the BBB or LE and explain his situation?

So based on what I read, and quoted above from your posts, I wrote that I would not do business with you or her.  That is pretty much what this site is for.  For the record, I have visited a lot of providers here, and 95% of them are gems, I just would not take a chance with you.

Also, if you want to discuss brain power, education, career choices or who is more dense, please respond privately.  I just do not feel that this is the forum for that.