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Just join P411 or Date Check? It may be more helpful than taking chances with seeing someone who doesn't verify.  

Posted By: elvis3141
I'm actually arranging to meet with providers that don't require references so that I'll have references so that I can meet with providers that DO require references.  
   
 I hope you appreciate my sacrifice, ladies!  I have to meet with beautiful women so that I can eventually meet other beautiful women.  
   
 Ah, heck.  You really are worth it.

elvis31411317 reads

I'm actually arranging to meet with providers that don't require references so that I'll have references so that I can meet with providers that DO require references.

I hope you appreciate my sacrifice, ladies!  I have to meet with beautiful women so that I can eventually meet other beautiful women.

Ah, heck.  You really are worth it.

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elitegray992 reads

As Some providers will only take references from verified & trusted providers. If someone sends me information from an unknown provider or someone with trashy pictures or online rep, it makes me question the man.

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elvis3141771 reads

GAAAAAAH!

Posted By: elitegray
As Some providers will only take references from verified & trusted providers. If someone sends me information from an unknown provider or someone with trashy pictures or online rep, it makes me question the man.

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elvis3141762 reads

I hadn't thought of that.  I'm not entirely undiscerning, but a little more thought may be a good idea.

Posted By: elitegray
As Some providers will only take references from verified & trusted providers. If someone sends me information from an unknown provider or someone with trashy pictures or online rep, it makes me question the man.

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elitegray790 reads

Anyone one - ANY ONE - intrested in seeing a provider should email her. NEVER assume ANYTHING. We girls each often have our on private eye way of verification and is often easier than you would think .

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elvis31411073 reads

Very good point.  Dang.  This board is all sorts of useful.

Thanks for the advice, love.

Posted By: elitegray
Anyone one - ANY ONE - intrested in seeing a provider should email her. NEVER assume ANYTHING. We girls each often have our on private eye way of verification and is often easier than you would think .

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EroticAngel69626 reads

I totally agree :)   Im a computer expert and verifying is way simpler than lots think :)

 
theres always   the nice detailed message compared to the "hi'  "hey" or are you avail? "  

i always like the name/loc/ can i see you at  insert time here   :)  gets fastest response and lets me know they are genuine versus  someone who wastes your tim

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vamptat2741 reads

Just join P411 or Date Check? It may be more helpful than taking chances with seeing someone who doesn't verify.  

Posted By: elvis3141
I'm actually arranging to meet with providers that don't require references so that I'll have references so that I can meet with providers that DO require references.  
   
 I hope you appreciate my sacrifice, ladies!  I have to meet with beautiful women so that I can eventually meet other beautiful women.  
   
 Ah, heck.  You really are worth it.

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balljointnut700 reads

lot's of chicks say they verify but don't.

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elvis3141799 reads

Because I'm entirely too chickenshit, if I'm honest.  

I understand that providers' safety is of paramount importance.  More important than anything, actually.

But my own safety and privacy is important as well.  I hate to think of a place like DateCheck getting raided, and my information ending up in some law enforcement computer system.  

Again, I'm a chickenshit.

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EroticAngel69708 reads

Id be happy to see you :)  lol   at least you've cleared up my question as to why not everyone has references.  I can typically verify without all that easy.   now if i only had the answer to why  gents like to only message hi  or u avail  id be happy.....

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ITAdmin578 reads

Go see Angel, she seems like a really nice lady. As an IT Professional myself I would probably spend the entire time just talking to her lol.

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ITAdmin602 reads

Don't worry to much about it. If I remember right their systems are not in this country so there is limited risk of that.

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rachelsonoma574 reads

Have you asked the no ref providers if they would be willing to act as a ref in the future? Are they established? If the answer is yes, your strategy is good. Another option to consider is P411 membership. It is discreet. Once you get an "okay", it is permanent. You don't have to worry about communication problems or what if your ref retires.

Related Link: http://www.rachelsonoma.com

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