Dreaded Jism Backup. I have only been at this hobby for about 9 months so I'm sure that this topic has already been discussed but frustration leads me to vent. Today for the second time since I began playing I was stranded at the last minute. Both times I confirmed with the provider in the morning and was given the directions to the nearby cross streets. Once I showered up and headed to the location and then.....nothing! No further communication. Damn that is annoying to the big head and terminally frustrating for the little head. Has anyone ever had this happen? In the first case I arrived at the condo complex and texted 5 minutes before the appointment and received a reply to wait as she had to run to the store and was on the back. Then nothing! Any providers with insight on this? I am a non threatening, white listed guy who just wants to have fun with some of the best ladies in the valley.

I'd review them and give them what they deserve, a bad rating.

The good girls would never do that, the hobby doesn't need flat out "no shows" as we all have lives and time can be precious...

Try the mature providers and well reviewed providers. This should never happen...even if they have to cancel last minute.  You deserve to be communicated with.   Terrible way to treat anyone!  I know my clients time is valuable and would never do that!  Hopefully you will have better luck next time!

When I was a raging drunk I did things like this. Maybe she has a problem. Lots of providers drink and use drugs. Or maybe she freaked out for some reason other than that. Hopefully nothing bad happened to her.

Hi gymrat;
   I agree with your sentiments. However, I don't believe TER will accept a review if a session didn't take place.
            Regards......RR

That thought never occurred to me. I know that the first one was fine afterwards because she PMed me the next time she was in town. Probably forgot she left me to stroke it myself but the drug/alcohol issue would explain the behavior. She was very well reviewed and I fell for her ad on the TER ad board. Since then I swore off visitors as there so many ladies right here that I still have to meet. The one today didn't have reviews so I was taking a chance anyway. Live and learn. Thanks for the perspective Sedona.

a NCNS can happen. You may have been her very very first client. Nerves might have gotten the better of her.  

I have between a 15 to 30 minute waiting rule when Im in the midst of a potential NCNS.  If I'm waiting in my car I go with 15 minutes and then I text and tell the provider I'm leaving.  If I'm in a Starbucks or some place where it's easy to kill 30 minutes than 30 minutes is my limit and then I text and then Im gone. I will follow up 24 hours later with a text/email to see if the provider is ok. Depending how the provider responds I may try to see her again. However, I normally don't beleive in second chances whe it comes to the hobby. Just to many great providers in Phoenix to try again.  

Usually after a NCNS I just head home or to the next business meeting.  I have never been a fan of the "plan B" concept, but that's just me.  

 

It was with a highly reviewed, gorgeous young gal who posts infrequently…  
I happened to see her BP ad called within minutes - no answer, but she called right back and set up an appointment for couple hours later.  She gave me cross roads of her hotel and said to call 30 min. prior.  

Called when I left the office - no answer, but I left message saying I was on my way.  
Got to the intersection - it could have been one of two nice Scottsdale extended stays, so I pulled into one, called - still no answer, I eft another message and said I understand if something came up, I was cool with that, just let me know - I could hang in the area for a bit.  
Went to Starbucks, waited 15-20 min and texted saying the same thing - if she had to cancel, fine, just let me know… waited another 10 finished my coffee and headed out.

I only hung with it for 2 reasons:  
1. I had a rare window of opportunity and location was not out of the way…
2. She is so DAMNED HOT!

Oh well… still might try her again, but she has not posted since the ad I responded to.

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