Is there a fine line between marketing and lying?  I'm speaking about those providers that choose to use VERY outdated pictures to market themselves.  I recently had an experience with a provider that did exactly that.  Her pictures must have been 10+ years old.  When she arrived at my hotel room I was totally turned off.  I'm a gentleman and didn't want to say anything so I found an excuse to send her along her way.  I decided to let her keep the donation for "her trouble".  Some will say I was wrong for doing so, but that's the way I am.

Before you say anything else, she was referred to me by 3 people on TER.  I was traveling and posted on a TER board for a recommendation.  I don't regret giving her the donation, but I am tired of this blatant misrepresentation...

I didn't review her as there was no services provided, but... what can you do... it was my fault.  What's my point?  I appreciate the providers who are honest about their appearance!

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WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED TO YOU GUYS?????!!!!!

I mean really?  When I first began this business, well, let's see over 10 YEARS AGO, if a gentlemen didn't like what he saw he turned her ass down.

Give her a cancellation fee of $ 30 and fucking leave.  OR....

and now what a concept on a REVIEW BOARD.

Write a GODDAMN review and SPEAK of your experience.  why are you men WASTING your money on women who show up and are subpar???

UGGGG.....

I am fortunate that I do NOT have a double life and can write anything I choose.  If I am not what the client believed he was going to have, I have no problem walking away - with gas money intact = cancellation fee.

OK?  REALLY....  so my next question may be, did you choose someone NOT reviewed, part of the ASU  brigade?  Were you BARGAIN hunting and now complaining on a board that has MANY STELLAR WELL REVIEWED, providers?

RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH MAN!!!  

Other than that, you will get out of this business what you put in.  If any of the gentlemen reading this are half assed with their research you will get HALF ASSED RESULTS!!!

Much love and great luck to you luv,
A genuinly and throughly proven provider,
xoxo
Jazz

okay, Jazz - seriously... THAT turned me on! Me likes the 'tude!

Kidding aside - Guys, this lady speaks the truth...

Jazz, you are obviously intelligent and professional, and this kind of moxie will let you succeed in whatever you do.

Your pix, website and extremely solid reviews speak volumes.  I'm not just kissing up - you can tell a lot about a business / provider by how much effort they put into her "marketing" - that is what I do for a living, and Jazz has the goods to back up her claims.

Hey - I'm convinced - I need to make an appointment!!

listen to most of the BS on here anyway....It's been said more than once EVERYONE has their favorite or ATF but that does not mean that the girl for you.

Question like who give the best bbbj or who kisses the best is only that one person's opinion, until they have seen us all how can that be a informed choice.

I get tired of guys not wanting to hurt a providers feeling for not giving a good reviews so they either fudge it or they just don't post one...bullshit on that, this is suppose to be informative information not kiss ass suck up just cuz you have a particular atf...what's great for one will not be for another.

The post I believe you are referring to is here and everyone can judge for themselves
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=73533&boardID=5&page=

Sorry you had a bad experience but you probably should inform either publicly or private message the gent or gents that steered you wrong...public ally would be better cuz that would help the next ole guy that's needs real info

...I always ask for their preferences.  I'm normally pretty picky, but I like what I like, and won't pay for anything outside of MY preferences.  So, if a guy doesn't agree with my likes, my recommendation isn't worth a flaming turd.

I learned early on that some guys tell you about a lady they like, without regard to that others may find her totally unacceptable.  Now, when I ask for help, I look for a guy that sees ladies like the ones that interest me.

I agree that what is one persons cup of tea, so to speak, isn't anothers and I try to take that into account as I do my research here.  However there does seem to be quite a large gray area between what is a fair and accurate reveiw of a provider and what that provider really is.  Yes, until you have actually met the provider in person and had some person experience there is a gamble to it all.  I know that it's a larger gamble for the providers and I greatly admire their class and ability to go with who shows up on their doorstep for the first time.  Being objective is hard to translate into words, but I think we all know when we post a review that others are going to use that information to some extent.  We also know if we are putting a bit too much BS in the review also (for what ever reason that is).  It's a gamble until you have met the girl and found out for yourself.  Too bad that I seem to view the reveiws here with more skepticism lately.

you cant trust any of the reviews on this site. hell i dont even trust my own since i write them when i get home feeling happy and lazy.

honestly so many reviews in the database are written for free vip or to give an unknown some air of legitimacy that none can be trusted.

all you should ever use a review for is a general idea of services, contact information and trustworthiness and that is all.
Just because so and so got something or said he did doesnt mean you will or that it even happened.

it pays better and there's less work involved.

lots of guys do the same thing you just did.
exactly the same.

we hear about it all the time.. but the guys never say who it is cuz they're afraid of the backlash from insulting one of the "established" providers

ok

so thats why you get ripped off.

you can do a review.. you met with her.. you paid her... you can state in the review that she was too ugly for the triple x so you sent her home.

she'll dispute it for inconsistency

and maybe it'll stick, maybe it wont.

but if you're not willing to try to solve the problem, and you insist on being a part of it, then you really have no right to complain.  i'm very sorry that you did not enjoy yourself and i hope you have a good experience soon to counteract the negative feelings you must be having towards the industry right now.

That she can lie, cheat and manipulate, and get away with it, because MEN ARE SAPS.

Providers need to be treated fairly and with respect. But the good ladies on theis board have often said that is is OK to cancel the appt at the door because of failed expectation. Just give the lady something for her gas/travel/trouble.

But Holy Jesus in High Heels! Don't make it bad on evryone else by rewarding this kind of deception. If you fell you HAVE to give her the money, than at least keep her for the hour and play scrabble or have her shine your shoes or SOMETHING!

Sorry, that was not the post.  This was in a different city.

I knew this would light a fire under some people... I didn't set out for advice;  and as I said in my original post, my intention was to thank the providers that "market" with fairly accurate pictures.  I really do appreciate it.